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Goodbye
VIP October 2014

Wedding Cost Poll

Goodbye, on May 24, 2013 at 10:06 PM

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Some nosy wedding questions...Overall how much is your wedding costing? Everything from the gown, to the ceremony, rings and reception but excluding honeymoon. Overall Cost: State: Number of Guest: Length of Reception: Alcohol: Here is mine... Overall Cost: $12,000 State: New Jersey Number of Guest...

Some nosy wedding questions...Overall how much is your wedding costing? Everything from the gown, to the ceremony, rings and reception but excluding honeymoon.

Overall Cost:

State:

Number of Guest:

Length of Reception:

Alcohol:

Here is mine...

Overall Cost: $12,000

State: New Jersey

Number of Guest Invited: 85

Length of Reception: 5 Hours

Alcohol: Yes - Open Bar

My sister is currently stationed in Texas, her and her husband eloped and would love to celebrate with a reception and has asked me to help with planning, but we can't figure out where to actually hold it! His family is from New Mexico, we're from New Jersey and now its down to her and I bickering about costs and options...They've talked about picking a random state to marry in, like FL or Maine, but we're just all over the place!

129 Comments

  • Rachel S.
    Master September 2013
    Rachel S. ·
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    Cost: around $30k not including honeymoon (but you better believe I'm trying to get that cost down)

    State: Maryland

    Number of Guests Invited: 175-185

    Length of Reception: 5 hours

    Alcohol: Yes premium open bar for 5 hours (included in all the venue's pacakages)

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  • Married2013
    Master September 2013
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    Overall Cost: $18-20k including my engagement ring and our wedding bands but excluding the honeymoon. Hoping to be nearer 18k but leaving room for unexpected costs.

    State: Southern California

    Number of Guest Invited: 140

    Length of Reception: 5 hours

    Alcohol: $1500 covered, beyond that, cash bar

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  • Kyle
    Super May 2019
    Kyle ·
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    Overall Cost: $8,000-$10,000

    State: MA

    Number of Guest: 100

    Length of Reception: 4 hours

    Alcohol: Yes, open bar.

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  • Carmiel
    Expert August 2013
    Carmiel ·
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    Overall cost: when all is said and done about 12K (not including rings)

    State: OH

    #of guest invited: 250 (only expect about 175 to attend since it's a Friday wedding)

    Length of reception: 5hrs

    Venue: Reception/banquet hall

    Alcohol: open bar

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  • Danielle S
    Expert December 2013
    Danielle S ·
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    Overall Cost: ~$8500

    State: Kansas. I think I'm the only one! lol

    Number of Guest Invited: 160-196. We are still in the stages of deciding on kids

    Length of Reception: 5 Hours

    Alcohol: Yes - Wine and Beer are unlimited, otherwise cash bar.

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  • J
    VIP June 2013
    Jenn ·
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    Overall cost: 25K and that doesn't get you much were I live

    State: PA

    #of guest invited: Expecting 130

    Length of reception: 4 1/4 hours

    Venue: Ski Resort

    Alcohol: Open premium bar

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  • ashlee
    Master January 2012
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    Oh boy. LOL - i try not to think of the TOTAL cost... hahaha - and i have to estimate on my rings because i have no idea what they cost...

    Overall Cost: $35,000

    State: Puerto Rico (DW in San Juan)

    Number of Guest: 50

    Length of Reception: 6hrs (if you include the cocktail hour)

    Alcohol: top shelf full open bar

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  • MrsGC
    Super October 2013
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    Overall Cost: Probably around $20K

    State: Rhode Island

    Number of Guests: 175

    Length of Reception: 6 hours

    Alcohol: Yes! Drinks during cocktail hour - after that cash bar

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  • Alisa S.
    VIP April 2013
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    Overall Cost: 10,000 (original budget was $7500)

    State: AZ

    Number of Guest: 65

    Length of Reception: 4 hrs. at golf club

    Alcohol: Open bar (was supposed to be beer & wine w/signature drink, but venue screwed up)

    Does not include engagement ring or honeymoon, or flight for his daughter from Japan.

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  • Ms. S
    Devoted June 2013
    Ms. S ·
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    Overall Cost: 25K

    State: Live in Mn, Wedding in Hillsdale, Wi

    Number of Guest Invited: 228

    Length of Reception: 4 hours

    Venue: The Enchanted Barn

    Alcohol: Yes, open Bar

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  • Ms. Versace
    Super June 2016
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    Overall Cost: FH has a budget of $100K.....me I want to keep it $25K and under (yes i think he hit his head)

    State: WI

    Number of Guest: 360 (trying to get it down before invites)

    Length of Reception: 6 hours

    Venue: The River Club of Mequon (my fav so far) or Tripoli Shrine Center or Villa Filomena cant decide yet UGH (FH like the other two)

    Alcohol: Yes open bar (FH father is paying)

    not included is the HM, the rings, and limo...But his cost does include fireworks where as mine doesnt (my family does that so its just supply cost)

    *to be honest I think its his mom that is pushing that type of number...if it were up to her id be getting married on a luxury yacht with a 7 course meal and a 9 tier cake....she has money!!!

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  • Almost Mrs. White
    Master September 2019
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    Overall Cost: $5,000 so far

    State: Delaware

    Number of Guest: 33 so far

    Length of Reception: 4 hrs.

    Alcohol: yes

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  • JC
    VIP May 2013
    JC ·
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    Overall Cost: $15,000

    State: Illinois

    Number of Guest invited: 53

    Length of Reception: 4 hours

    Venue: Holiday Banquets

    Alcohol: open Bar

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  • Sarah D.
    VIP March 2013
    Sarah D. ·
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    Overall Cost: $3200, not including honeymoon

    State: Oklahoma

    Number of Guest: 135

    Length of Reception: 5 hours

    Alcohol: beer & wine

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  • Megan
    Just Said Yes August 2013
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    Overall Cost: $10,000

    State: Washington

    Number of Guest Invited: 250

    Length of Reception: 6 hours

    Venue: Ceremony is at a family members house (large 30 acre lot with views of Mt. Baker) and reception is at a local reception hall that can hold up to 500 people, catering is included in price ~$4,000)

    Alcohol: 3 kegs and a set number of wine bottles is hosted, everything else is available for purchase by the guests

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2013
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    Overall Cost: Hoping for 12k but will probably end up being between 14-15k.

    Location: about 20-30 minutes outside Nashville, TN

    # of Guests Invited: around 150-170

    Length of Reception: around 6 hours

    Venue: Barn Ceremony, Outdoor Pavilion Reception

    Alcohol: Beer and Wine

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  • MrsDavidson17
    Expert November 2013
    MrsDavidson17 ·
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    Overall Cost: about $3000

    State: Destination wedding to Las Vegas

    Number of Guests: 20-25

    Length of Reception: However long we decide to go!

    Venue: Reception In-Suite on the Strip

    Alcohol: Beer and Wine

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  • Kim
    Super June 2018
    Kim ·
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    Overall Cost: $12000 is the budget..but guessing at the rate we are going $15000

    State: Iowa

    Number of Guest Invited: 170 ceremony/dinner then an additional 300 for the reception

    Length of Reception: 5 hours

    Venue: B&B

    Alcohol: Free beer and wine with a cash bar for mixed drinks

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  • Jamie Q.
    Master May 2013
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    Overall Cost: $22,000

    State: PA

    Number of Guest: 100

    Length of Reception: 4.5 hours

    Alcohol: yes, prices were set, cost us $1500 for the open bar for the reception (did consumption up to $2000)

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  • Kristina
    Just Said Yes September 2013
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    Overall Cost: $16,500

    State: PA

    Number of Guest Invited: 165

    Length of Reception: 5 Hours

    Alcohol: Yes - Open Bar

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