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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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Jables
Freight Train tracks along outdoor ceremony area
Jables, on February 7, 2018 at 12:47 PM

We are planning a ceremony and reception at the samesies venue with a 20-30 min ceremony in the courtyard of the area. Freight train tracks run along the back of the building and I'm concerned there...

BrandiWeds18, Feb 7, 2018 10 224
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Recessional song
Alex, on February 6, 2018 at 10:45 PM

Me and my fiancé love old throwback songs! Trying to think of a good upbeat funny song for the recessional. Any ideas?

Orange_Mellen, Feb 7, 2018 6 347
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My 3 year old walking me down the aisle
Kaitlyn, on February 5, 2018 at 9:26 PM

Hi everyone! Going to keep the long dramatic story short and straight to the point, my step dad walked out on us about 2 years ago (My sperm donor has never been around) he isn’t invited to the...

Bride2B, Feb 5, 2018 7 1,885
FutureMrsB
How to decorate pergola
FutureMrsB, on February 3, 2018 at 4:49 PM

My wedding venue has a beautiful pergola to get married under however I'm not sure how to decorate or if I should do anything at all. It is exremely large and I am afraid anything I do will look small...

FutureMrsB, Feb 4, 2018 8 1,918
Casey
What time to have the ceremony?
Casey, on February 3, 2018 at 5:34 PM

Hey everyone! So I am getting married in December, in a rustic barn venue. Next to the barn (where we will have the reception) they have a chapel we will most likely get married in - unless it's a...

earias, Feb 4, 2018 12 308
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Weeping Willow Tree in California for Ceremony
Jkgoni, on February 4, 2018 at 10:55 AM

Hello, we we are looking for a wedding venue that has a willow tree that we could get married in front of. Does anyone know places in Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, or within a 2 hour radius of Sacramento???...

Jkgoni, Feb 4, 2018 471
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Ceremony on dance floor??
Kassandra , on February 3, 2018 at 7:54 PM

Hello brides!! I’m wondering if any of you have had or been to a wedding where they did the ceremony on the dance floor of the reception area? If so, how did you like it? Thanks in advance!

M.Hand, Feb 3, 2018 2 463
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Goes by middle name..
J.Taylor, on February 1, 2018 at 9:15 AM

Okay y’all, I know it’s my wedding and I can have it how I want. BUT, FH goes by his middle name. What is the norm for the officiant to refer to his as during the ceremony? Example: “Do you FirstName...

Mrs.hays, Feb 2, 2018 8 425
Mar816
Fh’s Niece and Nephew
Mar816, on January 19, 2018 at 12:59 AM

Don’t be scared to get creative here because I’ll take all suggestions! I have a daughter who will be 5 by the time we get married and to give her her own spotlight, she’ll be the flower girl and ring...

Bride2Be, Feb 1, 2018 22 2,152
Elizabeth
diy Unity Cross
Elizabeth, on January 31, 2018 at 1:08 PM

I would like to do a unity cross for our unity ceremony during the wedding. My finance's grandpa can make one for us, but I'm not sure what I want it to look like. I'd prefer something that can hang...

Stephanie, Jan 31, 2018 1 1,655
Future Mrs
Jumping The Broom
Future Mrs, on January 30, 2018 at 5:37 AM

Is anyone jumping the broom? I’ve always wanted to do it, not for any religious or historical reasons. I just think it’s cute. I’ve gotten a lot of negative feed back from friends saying I’m being...

AQuixoticBride, Jan 31, 2018 49 1,083
Dayla
How many Readings in your ceremony?
Dayla, on January 30, 2018 at 11:00 AM

Just curious how many readings most people will be doing. I was thinking two. Planning on it being a 30 minute ceremony. It is in a chapel, but not a catholic wedding. Thanks for any input!

lindseybee89, Jan 30, 2018 13 1,449
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Having best friend walk me down the aisle
Sarah, on January 29, 2018 at 5:22 PM

My father and I are not on the best terms. We had a large fight in which he said horrible, hurtful things about myself and my fiance (then boyfriend). We are on better terms than we used to be, but...

Sarah, Jan 29, 2018 4 2,414
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Christian and Catholic Wedding Ceremony
Rachel, on January 26, 2018 at 7:15 PM

I am a non-denominational Christian and my fiance is Catholic. We are holding our ceremony at our venue and we are meeting with a pastor in the area to potentially be our officiant. We would like to...

Katherine, Jan 27, 2018 5 1,004
Dee
Traditional duties of a ring bearer?
Dee, on January 26, 2018 at 5:08 PM

Hi, everyone. I've searched the forum about the duties of a ring bearer, but I haven't quite found what I'm looking for. My ring bearer will be 13 at the time of my wedding, so it's not an issue to...

TarHeel729, Jan 26, 2018 9 263
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Chairs or no chairs for beach wedding
Ashley, on January 26, 2018 at 7:28 AM

We are getting married on the beach with no more than 100 guests. I really think having chairs for guests looks nice so that was the plan. My friend tells me she wouldn’t waste the money😐. I am saving...

Ashley, Jan 26, 2018 18 341
Allison Nicole
My venue was sold!
Allison Nicole, on January 26, 2018 at 11:49 AM

My venue for the ceremony and reception just got bought by another company and the deal is closing in March, one month before my wedding date! No word on whether or not they will uphold my contract,...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Jan 26, 2018 16 1,909
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Bride doesn't want me the maid of honor standing next to her at the ceremony
sarah, on January 25, 2018 at 4:54 AM

I am a maid of honor at one of my best friends wedding. She doesn't want me standing next to her at the ceremony she rather arrange us by height and I'm in the middle (there is 3 of us) so a...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Jan 26, 2018 14 809
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How much is too much?
Taylor, on January 25, 2018 at 7:25 PM

How much is a typical wedding? I know there's a lot to factor in food, bar, ceremony, and reception. But I absolutely fell in love with a place and it's $7,000 for the reception and an extra...

CBD to Be, Jan 26, 2018 18 1,302
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2 ceremonies in 1 day
Shezana, on January 23, 2018 at 9:07 PM

I'm trying to honour both of our cultures, and am wondering if anyone has any experience with having 2 ceremonies in the same day? we are thinking the following schedule: 1:30pm - first ceremony...

Sarah, Jan 24, 2018 8 310
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