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Wedding bands

Jessica, on September 3, 2019 at 1:45 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 23

Went to get my engagement ring cleaned yesterdaySmiley love , so we took a glance at wedding bands for my FH.

The question of who pays for it came up! Who is paying for yours?

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Latest activity by Kayla, on September 4, 2019 at 11:19 PM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    All of our finances are already combined so we're buying both of our wedding bands.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I paid for his and he’s paying for mine
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  • VIP November 2021
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    We also already have shared finances...
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  • VIP November 2021
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    Same here !!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    We also have shared finances. If we didn’t, I would have purchased hers and she would have purchased mine.
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  • J
    Devoted November 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Thanks for the insight ladies!

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  • Ashley
    Savvy November 2019
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    We are paying for them together.

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  • Jill
    Expert April 2020
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    FH bought my engagement ring and band at the same time. I purchased his band!

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  • Michelle
    Dedicated August 2020
    Michelle ·
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    I paid for his and he’s paying for mine.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    Since I proposed first I bought the engagement rings and she bought the wedding bands while on a trip to Mexico. We do have a joint account though and would have paid from there if she hadn't already decided to get the bands during her trip.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    We paid for our bands out of our joint account. So technically, we are both paying for both bands. If we did not have a shared account, we would each pay for the other persons.

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    FH paid for my band and I paid for his Smiley smile

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  • Kiley
    Expert November 2019
    Kiley ·
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    I paid for his and he paid for mine. We had a budget, so that helped ensure he wasn't paying for the price of an engagement ring all over again.

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
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    We have shared finances already. We paid for ours together.
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  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    FH is paying for mine, and ultimately will pay for his. I will be putting it on the joint credit card.
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Our finances are combined now so we both paid for the rings but we each picked out our rings separately.
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  • Courtney
    Dedicated July 2021
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    I bought his, he bought mine. It was totally unfair as his was very cheap despite my objections. Mines a bit flashy but we saved big getting it pre owned. I kind of like that we gifted them to each other.
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
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    I paid for my husband’s band. We were going to skip a wedding band for me (my e ring is weirdly shaped) but my MIL and my, now, late GMIL had a custom ring made by my husband’s uncle (is an UIL a thing? )
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  • Ashlyn
    Dedicated December 2019
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    Since ours are pretty much the same-ish price, we decided to combine the cost and just split it 50/50 to keep it fair. He offered to buy mine and I'd buy his, but that felt unfair to me.

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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
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    He’s paying for mine and I’m paying for his.
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