I have a problem. I love two wedding bands and I can’t decide. Both of them are very different sides of me and I’m slowly wondering if I just get both, see which one I like more on, give the other to my FH and tell him that that is the gift he needs to give me for our 1 year anniversary married/10 years together. Or heck I’ll just do 2. VS And here is my engagement ring.
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I feel you. The problem is that both scream me. One is the calm, normal me and the other is the chaotic, witchy me. Either one I pick I feel like I’m missing out on the other.
I definitely like the bottom one. Honestly I just let my fiance pick my band lol. He picked my engagement ring (knowing a lot of my opinions) and he saw one he thought really went well with my ring. He showed me and I tried it on before we bought it and I could've said no but I ended up really liking it and then it took away me having to make a lot of decisions which I hate lol
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That’s fair. I’m kinda at the point of just asking him to pick between the two. They are both by the same seller on Etsy and whichever I choose will be customer to my ring so it’ll fit perfectly. My MaidOH and MatronOH who both know me extremely well picked opposite ones, so I know either way it’ll be me lol.
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Fair, and again if I’m having regret I can always ask him to get it for me as a combo Anniversary, Christmas, and Valentine’s/Birthday gift. (For larger gifts we tend to roll them all into one and just do a little candy treat on the actual day)
If I was in your situation, I would sit quietly in a semi yoga lotus pose and meditate about which one you think truly represents your authentic self. Which side of your personality are you most comfortable with? Which side would you want your children to inherit? Then, I would choose that ring….but that is just me. Good luck!
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I’m thankfully in perfect peace with both sides of myself and hope to pass them both on to my children. To be wild and free but to be still and calm are both valuable and wonderful things to be. 🥰💕💕💕
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April 2023
Peyton ·
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Ha ha! So that makes it impossible to choose. I guess just get both of them or flip a coin! Good luck again
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Thank you! That’s what originally drew my eye to it, but then I saw that it looked like crescent moons and branches and I just kept falling in love with the layers of it. Though the other one I love with how simple and blunt it is with the symbolism with the two maple leaves. 😅