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Mariah, on April 6, 2020 at 5:21 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 8
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Why does women get to have 2 ring a engagement and a wedding rings and men only get 1 ring after the wedding


Latest activity by Tina, on April 8, 2020 at 12:36 AM
  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I am pretty sure it was something way back in older times that we just kind of stuck with in modern days now. however now a days i've been seeing women gift men with something else like an engagement watch or i've seen some women here opt not to have a separate wedding ring.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Just because something is tradition, doesn't mean that you have to follow it. If your FH wants to wear an engagement ring, go for it.

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  • Katharine
    Expert July 2021
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    I think it's more of a modern thing, actually, to sell more jewelry. Engagement rings also used to be used as the wedding ring for many women.

    Also, you do you. Tradition is just a guideline, IMO.

    A couple weeks after we got engaged, my FH jokingly complained about not getting an engagement ring too. So I went out and got him a really nice tungsten carbide ring with a little diamond, as an "engagement ring" of his own. Smiley smile It will also be his wedding band.

    He got me a pretty little engagement ring, and I decided I wanted a particular type of band with it, so I went out and found/bought it. Already wearing it because I adore the set together and we consider ourselves married in all but name anyway.

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  • Nicole
    VIP September 2020
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    I got my fiance an engagement ring that he plans on wearing on a chain as a necklace after the wedding. I would imagine it's like what Katherine said and is just a ploy to sell more jewelry.

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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    My FH wears his wedding band already and I am using my engagement ring as a wedding band. We are just going to take them off and use them for the ceremony.

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  • Nikki
    Devoted September 2021
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    I got my fiance an engagement ring but it was really something he can wear to work since he does hvac. We got a fancier ring for the wedding and when he wants to get dressed up Wedding bands 1
    Regular rose gold band for everydayWedding bands 2
    His wedding band for wedding and dressing up.
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    The only "tradition" is for both of you to wear no rings or just a band. As time has gone by, people have chosen to wear rings differently. It is all personal preference. You don't have to wear anything more than 1 ring and your FH can wear more than one or you can both wear none. It is completely up to you.

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  • T
    Devoted August 2020
    Tina ·
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    Tradition I guess. Men want to get their special girl that special ring that the lady wants to go show off. I technically will have three. My FH when we first started dating on our 1 year anniversary he got me a promise ring. Everyone is different. Even women propose to their bfs. Times change. Do whatever makes both of you happy. That’s what’s important 😊
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