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Wedding band

Brianna, on February 12, 2020 at 11:33 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 7
So my fiancé does handy work so I was going to get him a regular wedding band along with a silicone one that he can wear for work. However he wants to wear his silicone one before the wedding which is in 7 months. I feel like it’s still a ring and don’t want him to wear it till the wedding he sees it as “but it’s not my real ring” lol. Any opinions? Should I give it to him now?

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Latest activity by Danielle, on February 12, 2020 at 2:14 PM
  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
    Vannesa ·
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    So my FH has a qalo ring I got it off amazon for way cheaper. He wears it all the time and our wedding isn't for awhile away. But qalo is definitely good quality for working hands.

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    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    My FH wears his silicone one I bought him and we aren't married. He just likes it!

    I have purchased his official wedding band and this is tucked away for safe keeping.

    I feel like it's okay to wear the silicone one before since you are getting another band as well.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    My husband started wearing his ring right when we got it. I mean women have an engagement ring we wear so why can't men wear a ring too
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    I think it is weird when men wear bands and they are not married yet, unless it is an "engagement ring". I know this is not the common opinion on this thread, but unless you proposed to him, I think he should just be patient.

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    Master January 2015
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    FH was so in love with his wedding band and wanted to wear it immediately. I told him I'd rather him wait until after the wedding because I thought it would weird to put a ring on his finger during the ceremony that he's been wearing for months. I also told him that I wouldn't be mad if he did wear it, it was just my preference. So we got him a silicone band right after we bought his real band and he's been wearing it since then. He tells the fellas at work that "oh the fiancé has a ring on her finger so she said she wanted me to wear one too", but HE'S the one that wanted to wear one so bad Smiley xd He just likes having a ring on his finger and we've even joked that it's his "engagement ring", but it's also allowing him to get used to wearing a ring since he's never worn a ring before.

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    Super August 2020
    Alex ·
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    If he really wants to wear it, I think that is sweet! He is excited to be married to you. My FH asked me if he should where his now. My response was traditional the man waits until after the wedding, but if you really want to go for it!

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    Expert May 2021
    Danielle ·
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    Yea give It to him. Guys like a way to represent the engagement also.
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