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Sara
Expert August 2021

Wedding Announcement?

Sara, on August 22, 2020 at 10:51 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5
We are eloping in our backyard with just our parents. Holding off the big celebration for next year. My fmil asked if we were sending out announcments to everyone saying we got married. Is this something we should do? She said people might want to send gifts but I figured we would just wait for next year.

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Latest activity by Sexypoodle, on August 23, 2020 at 1:42 AM
  • Vicky
    VIP January 2020
    Vicky ·
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    This is something you could do, but it's not a should. It's completely up to you. I wouldn't if you're planning on having a celebration with people later on. It's unlikely you would get many gifts, and frankly I don't think anything should be done for the sake of getting gifts anyway.

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  • Sara
    Expert August 2021
    Sara ·
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    Okay, I don't think we will send anything out. We plan to send new save the dates with a picture from our backyard ceremony and people can see that we are married and doing a vow renewal next year. Hopefully!
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  • J
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    Judith ·
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    Announcements are not to get gifts, though some will send them on the occasion of your marriage, wedding or no. Announcements function to tell a change of address, or title, or name. So the person planning a party or wedding in 4 months does not have to scrounge for current addresses, what names you use, or even who the heck is that girl he is with now? Spread the news, and let everyone update their address books. Presents, sooner or later, people may pick either time.
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Agree with this. They are typically sent out a day/week/month following the wedding when the couple elopes.
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    I think it’s a nice way to announce that you’re married now, since most of your guest might not know you eloped. I’m not sure what your new invitations will say. But I think it might be a little odd if people show up next year thinking they’re attending your wedding, only to find out that day that you’re already married.
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