Wedding after being married?

I know I'm late to the party and nobody will probable read this....but some of you need to pull your head out your butt! FIRST OF ALL, you need to read the original post very clearly. WHERE does it say that her legal marriage was a secret??? SECONDLY, are you serious!? So your telling me that becuase I went to the courthouse and LEGALLY got married, but NEVER said vows, I am not entitled to a wedding!? I am only "allowed" to have a vow renewal? And LASTLY, SHAME ON SOME OF YOU for trying to make this about you!!

Our kids, families, friends, and coworkers all know I am legally married and have even changed my name. However we told them that since it was a private ordeal done just with us 2 present, we would have a family event with everyone. If people dont want to come beciase we are already legally married, thats on them. I AM GOING to have a wedding, say my vows, and take my honeymoon just like most people do. Jimmy and I have been together 6 years. Our family is over the moon excited for us to have a wedding where they can FORMALLY celebrate our union. The reason we have already been legally marroed is so that I could add him to my dental insurance and he can get his teeth fixed, since he didnt want pictures or anything done until that was taken care of. WHY we got married is honestly nobodys effing business but we arent keeping it a secret. If somebody doesnt want to come, I bet I wont lose any sleep over it. And to the ones complaining because you bought a gift!? Take your gift and shove it. I sincerely hope some of you bigots never get divorced and marry someone else because GOD FORBID you get married twice. Thats like twice you would take vacation and spend money on somebody you love and who wants to SEE YOU. Fake wedding? Some of you FAKE PEOPLE make me sick!