I wrote in about invitation wording yesterday, little did I know that my parents would have such a strong feeling about it. Here's what we proposed:
Together with
{parents anmes}
{my name}
and
{FH's name}
Invite You To blah blah blah
My parents generously gave us money toward our wedding. Our all in actual cost will be about twice what they gave us, which is no problem. We, of course, didn't ask for more. I guess my parents assumed that their gift would be covering everything and are livid that it's not. They told me it's insulting to send out invitations that say we're co-hosting and that they'd rather not have their name at all. They started asking specifics about our budget and I decline to provide; it's personal information and tacky to discuss IMO. They started going after me saying if I could have planned a wedding with the money they gave, but chose not to, and they therefore should get sole responsibility for the wedding. I don't have a particularly close relationship with my parents to begin with and I'm really resenting them budget shaming me.
Am I crazy? FH and I are completely planning this on our own (parents not that interested) and have spent a substantial amount of our money. It seems asinine to me that we'd step back and pretend as if my parents footed the bill for everything. Am I being petty? Are they being petty?
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