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Amanda
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VENT: Father/Step father daughter dances!!!

Amanda, on October 28, 2015 at 1:41 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

Uh, so for starters I am very close with my dad & my step dad so I decided on doing a father daughter dance with both of them. The songs would kinda mesh together towards the end of the first song & I would just switch dads. I picked a song for my dad already "I loved her first" I even got him a...

Uh, so for starters I am very close with my dad & my step dad so I decided on doing a father daughter dance with both of them. The songs would kinda mesh together towards the end of the first song & I would just switch dads.

I picked a song for my dad already "I loved her first" I even got him a patch made saying "I loved her first, love Amanda 6/4/16" to be sewn onto his tie as his present.

I have been struggling to pick a song for my step dad. He came into my life when I was around 13 or 14.

I thought (didn't really think, she can be difficult) that I would ask my mom to help find one. Everything I mentioned, she does not like. Then she asked what song I was dancing to with my dad so she could exclude that (fair enough right? wrong). Now she is pissed because she thinks it is going to upset my step dad and make it seem like he never loved me and that my dad was the only one. I'm about ready to throw something at her THROUGH the phone!!!!!

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  • Amanda
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    @BarlettToBe- Thank you. Music is important to me as well & lyrics really speak to me especially with loved ones. I am still looking so its just finding the rest song and how I feel it not really caring about my mothers opinion on this. She is just acting crazy and wanting a part of control.

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  • Amanda
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    @Nicole-I tried to tell her it was not a competition but, that didn't go over well. My parents hate & I mean HATE each other. They have always made things like this hard & usually disappointing and sad for me. I am bound and determined though for that not to happen. I am not giving any fucks this time.

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    Just Said Yes August 2015
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