Vendors only responding to bride

Has this happened to anyone else? Vendors will reach out to me unsolicited (I don't mind that part as much) but won't reach out to my male fiance. Even when I reply with him on the email and explicitly say that we plan together and he needs to be included, vendors will only reply to me. The only vendor that reached out to both of us was selling a photo booth package, which unfortunately we're not planning on doing. I'm not looking for advice, it's more of a rant and to ask about your experiences with this.