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Kayla
Savvy October 2019

Used wedding dress?

Kayla, on September 10, 2018 at 9:49 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 27

DecklynUsed wedding dress? 1

So I said YES to THE dress!! 10000% my dress. It's Hayley Paige's 'Decklyn'. I had originally thought I was going to say yes to her 'Pepper' or 'West' dress but didn't like all the sequins... ANWAYS this is my dress and I'm soooo excited! I wouldn't need to put a deposit ($2,000) down until January and then pay the other half by September 2019. While I'd be able to make this work, I don't see the point of spending THAT much money...So I found the exact dress in MY size...half off, used. I feel like it's fate that I found someone my size/height in the dress I picked. SOOO what I'm asking is,

***What's your opinion on USED wedding dresses?

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Latest activity by Jen, on August 25, 2019 at 11:50 PM
  • Kalie
    Dedicated February 2019
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    Do it. Mine is pre-owned and you can't even tell besides the fact that it has buttons underneath from being bustled (can't see them normally though). I saved so much money and anyone who has seen the pics of me in it love it. Just be sure to ask questions if you are purchasing online. I got mine at a consignment store.
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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
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    This dress is going to look amazing on you, Kayla!!! I say that, so long as you're comfortable in the dress, it doesn't really matter if it's used. If it doesn't bother you, then it doesn't bother me. You do you. Smiley smile Do you plan on keeping your dress after your wedding?

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  • Chrystal
    Super May 2019
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    If I could have found a used dresses I would have definitely done that. As long as the dress is in good shape I would go for it!
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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2019
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    Thanks!! Honestly I think I’ll sell it again
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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
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    That's totally fair!!! Who knows, you might even give some lucky person as much excitement as you're experiencing right now!! Smiley smile

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  • Brianna
    Savvy May 2019
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    I did the same thing! My dream dress was $2,800 new so when I found it in my size pre-owned for $600 I jumped on it! It came in the mail last week and is in amazing condition and I don't regret it one bit

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  • Kristen
    VIP August 2018
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    If you found it used, in good condition, in your size I think you've found the holy grail. Wedding dresses are TOO expensive! If you have a chance to save money go for it. No one will ever know it's used.

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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2019
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    Awesome !! So happy for you and that you found your dream dress!
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  • Officiallymrs
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    I think it’s an awesome idea !!
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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2018
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    I almost went this route, the store was able to exchange my dress for a smaller size so I never had to follow through- but I think this is an awesome option. I know you have found THE dress, but I loved looking at all the different options! I found a dress with the most beautiful back, on a pre-owned website, and I would have bought it in a heartbeat- haven't seen another dress like it!
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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2018
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    Ooh! If this is the one you were considering, I would just ask for more pictures, it says it's a sample and I know sample dresses at some stores can be stretched out or torn a little bit from being tried on so often...

    https://www.preownedweddingdresses.com/dresses/view/281592/Hayley-Paige-Decklyn-Size-12
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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2019
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    You did your research! But nope, that's not the one I'm considering. I actually found it on Poshmark. It's on hold for me rn while it's at the cleaners. I asked for a bunch of pictures! It was only worn once on her wedding day. I needed a size 2 so samples wouldn't work :/

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  • Kodi
    Super April 2019
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    So awesome you found it used! I went to try on the West because I thought that was THE dress, looked a lot better online, something about all the sequins gave me a "cheap" feel although not cheap at all! Congrats on the dress, I love that one!! I believe they have a flower girl dress just like this one if you're interested in that too.

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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2019
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    Yes I totally agree! I was dead set on the west with a tulle overlay for ceremony so I could have both the pepper and west. I thought it was lace. Hated the sequins. And yes they do! My flower girl is taller than me though so idk if we’ll do that lol
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  • Jazz
    Devoted June 2019
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    Do it Do it Do it! I thought of it as fate as well. The girl I bought it from was my same size (she had it taken in), just two inches taller than me. It has such a long train too but she took such great care of it! No snags, stains or anything. I had even told myself a while back that I really didn't want to spend more that like $600 on a dress. She sold it for just under that! I say go for it. preownedweddingdresses and stillwhite are the main ones I've heard are good for that. Where did you find yours? I got mine from preowned Smiley smile

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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2019
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    That’s awesome!!! I looked on both stillwhite and preowned but all were too big. Actually found it on poshmark !
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  • Jazz
    Devoted June 2019
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    Oh yay!! Poshmark is awesome too! I never found any of the dresses I was interested in on there though, so lucky you. I'm so excited for you! Getting something half off is always the best feeling haha :p

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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
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    Go for it! Sounds like it was meant to be.

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  • H
    Expert July 2019
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    As long as it's in good shape I dont see an issue! However, I would check to see how much it had been altered. You might end up paying a bunch if it has been altered a lot for someone else.
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    Mine was used, and NotFroofy's was a sample. Especially since we needed two, I just couldn't see spending all the money for a dress we'd wear once.

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