Just Said Yes December 2021

Upset about bachelorette

Holly, on September 27, 2021 at 9:25 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5
So upset about my recent bachelorette and how some of my friends acted.

I organised the whole thing (my friends don't know each other and I thought it would be easier if I did it but I wish I hadn't)

One of my bridesmaids told me about a surprise another friend had organised. She encouraged everyone to pay for their own meal meaning I paid for my lunch which was less than 13 dollars.
She complained about contributing to the food for the weekend and took what she bought with her home before the weekend was over. She didn't stay over and left the bachelorette halfway through making excuses. She was also snappy and off with me the whole day.
They left me to cook and pay for the evening meal for everyone that we ate at the cottage we booked.
Two friends got so drunk they were sick all over the club and brought her friend along who I'd never met to go out with us at night.
Wish I'd not bothered.


Latest activity by Kayla, on September 27, 2021 at 11:17 AM
  • Jacks
    Master November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    I'm sorry it didn't turn out well. Just as a note to people reading this, you shouldn't' be planning a bachelorette in your own honour. It puts people on the spot to try and attend and pay for it.

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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Aww man that sucks, did you at least get to have a little fun? On another note, your wedding is approaching and you won't have to worry about another bachelorette!

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  • Janet
    Devoted October 2018
    Janet ·
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    I'm sorry you didn't have a great time. I hope there was at least something about it you got to enjoy

    Money is a weird subject with a lot of people and needs to be discussed no matter who is planning. Some can/will pay for the bride, and others will not/can't.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Sounds like an unfortunate situation all around. But thankfully, it was just a pre-gathering and not the wedding.
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  • Kayla
    Savvy October 2021
    Kayla ·
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    I'm so sorry..I dealt with similar issues. Getting kicked out the club, multiple girls fist fighting...just terrible. I'm still upset about it but my big day is saturday so I am focusing on having an awesome day. Thing will get better Smiley heart

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