So....I was at a family function for my fiances family. His aunt approached me regarding her soon to be daughter in law. She asked if I was planning to attended her bridal shower. As I was saying yes she said you know the wedding is the most important part, so if you cant make the shower its ok. I still didnt realize what was going on. So I said again yes I am off that day I will definitely be there. His aunt turns around and said, well we are having a problem with limited seats so really its ok if you cant go.
I am really upset and annoyed by this. Do I still go out of spite. Or do I decline the rsvp and still give her the gift I bought months ago.
Eta----My shower is in a few weeks. Im certain the other bride to be will decline so she thinks I wilp be upset and then not go to hers.
Also debated talking to my m.i.l. but that will end with me being dramatic and aunt so and so didnt mean it that way.
