Hi,
TIA for reading this and your advice!
We postponed and then cancelled our 2020 wedding. We are planning on a 2022 wedding in the near future.
I was able to secure my photographer for an elopement adventure shoot and minimony instead. The minimony is in 3 weeks in the backyard with 20 close friends and fam and adventure shoot is on our postponed date, 10.10 will just be us and the photographer. I'm not stuck on getting married/doing something on certain dates. I'm more of a go with a flow person.
Originally for my 2020 wedding, I planned on Vera Wang and a change for reception in a jumpsuit. Now that i'm doing an adventure shoot, I ended up buying a more flowy dress. It cost me $100 so i couldn't resist. Also scored my Vera wang at a sample sale for $300. I've had 3 years to plan this wedding and now I have to wait another two...Note that we did get legally married when COVID hit in March for insurance coverage.
He's been waiting/dying to see my dress and I mean so am I... so just to make the best out of all the entire situation!
My mom is also telling me it's bad voodoo if I have two wedding dresses... we've been together for 9 years at this point, I am not a superstition person so this doesn't really affect me but open to hear some feedback.
Here are the options i'm going through my head, you'll see the dresses are completely different!
Option 1:
Minimony - Wear Vera Wang
Elopement - Flowly
Wedding: Enter Ceremony with Flowly then change to Vera for first dance then change for party outfit Jumpsuit
Option 2:
Minimony - Jumpsuit or LWD w/ Veil
Elopement - Flowly (sell/donate dress)
Wedding: Vera + Jumpsuit
Option 3:
Minimony - Vera
Elopement: Flowly
Wedding: Vera + Jumpsuit

