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True or False: I wish I had more help planning

Rebecca, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM

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Have you found yourself wishing you had more help planning your wedding? Whether it’s more help from your fiancé(e), family, or the ability to hire a wedding planner - do you wish you had more support? True or false? I wish I had more help planning my wedding! Next Question: I didn't like my hair...

Have you found yourself wishing you had more help planning your wedding? Whether it’s more help from your fiancé(e), family, or the ability to hire a wedding planner - do you wish you had more support?

True or false? I wish I had more help planning my wedding!


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83 Comments

  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    False. It wasn't really that stressful or hard since it was all inclusive. I didn't want to have to plan a lot though lol

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  • Melissa
    Beginner May 2019
    Melissa ·
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    No I’ve git a good wedding planner -Haley Hill
    hill & co
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  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    False. I have a great support system with my bridal party
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  • N
    Beginner March 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Yes and no. I wish my fiance would at least act like he cares but I don't know if there is any hope for that. It is starting to become annoying.

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  • G
    Savvy July 2019
    Georgia ·
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    True, even if it’s not much having my fiancé show more interest in planning would be much appreciated
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Do you two try to set time aside to plan together?!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I'm sorry to hear this, Nicole. Are you two maybe able to set aside some time each week to go over wedding planning?

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's awesome, Melissa! I'm sure a wedding planner is a huge help!

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  • N
    Beginner March 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Hey, thanks. We will go over stuff sometimes but it comes back to whatever I want is fine with me. We will be working to do some and find some medium ground.

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  • Monica
    Beginner September 2019
    Monica ·
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    I wish my bridesmaides would come together more to help me plan I really didn’t think weddings were this stressful!
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  • Kristine
    Beginner July 2019
    Kristine ·
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    I'll have to admit, I have lost it a few times. Between working full time, renovating my house, starting a new business and planning the honeymoon, haven't had much time to even start thinking about the wedding plans. My fiance is not very helpful with any of this.....except the honeymoon, he wants to see certain things but EVERYTHING else is all me :/


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  • M
    Dedicated April 2019
    Melissa ·
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    True, I'm pretty much doing it alone which is kinda good cause im
    a control freak but I would like some help sometimes
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  • Candi
    Super October 2023
    Candi ·
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    Both I want help but am doing great planning solo/

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  • Katelyn
    Beginner June 2019
    Katelyn ·
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    No! I have so many helpers and support that it's almost suffocating.
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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriela ·
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    True for me. Really I just wish my mom was more involved. We’ve never been close, and I was hoping that wedding planning was something we could bond over, but not happening! My fiancé, his mom and sister, and my friends have been a great support and help.
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    False. I actually like planning. The part I don't care too much for really is the fact that it does get kind of complicated dealing with certain people/vendors, etc. All in all, I already have the ceremony portion figured out. Now just trying to work out the reception or some kind of event afterward.

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  • Expert August 2020
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    True and false. I had several people helping. The problem was the quality of the help. I'd like to have help but only if they know what they're doing.

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  • Ana
    Dedicated October 2019
    Ana ·
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    I have a tremendous amount of help from friends and family and I am so grateful!

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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
    Pattie ·
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    Yes! I could use help. Everyone says I have tons of time but vendors I have called for an event a year away are already booked! I’d rather put all the ducks in a row early and just get to chill
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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    False. I love being in control of what happens on MY wedding day. My FH of course is a part of it and has a lot of say, but thankfully we agree on most things! We split two things, though. He deals with the music, and the invitations are allllll mine as I am a graphic designer.

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