To Fire a Bridesmaid: Should i or Shouldn’t I???

I’ve had it up to here with my soon to be sister-in-law. I asked her to be in my wedding in November of 2017. That was over a year ago. Fast forward to this year (2019). I’ve been wedding planning for over a year now. Last year I sat down with all the bridesmaids, maid of honor, coordinator (at the time) and my mom and we discussed what was to come for my wedding. I asked EVERYONE if there was anything that would permit them from participating. They all said they were cool.

My so-called sis-in-law has been a thorn in my behind since the wedding planning has started. It took her 7 months to get her dress. It takes her over a week (sometimes more) to return phone calls and text msgs. She seems uninterested and not happy for us and all. Not to mention she tells her brother that she’s bringing her BOYFRIEND, someone whom we’ve never met. How rude is that? Then just today my maid of honor sends out a msg about the rehearsal for the wedding, which is NEXT FRIDAY!!! She says she can’t make it b/c she has night class!??!! What??!!

I’m done! Im tired of being considerate of someone who is obviously pre-occupied. Everyone else has made sacrifices - EVERYONE but she can’t? My step-daughter is even excited for me and her daddy. I can’t. I just can’t. It feels like she’s doing this out of obligation and I asked her sincerely. I really did. I’m just sorry I overlooked someone who GENUINELY wanted to be in my wedding 👰🏾. As far as I’m concerned she wasn’t down from the start. Smh