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Jillian
Expert August 2011

Tipping the hairstylist - when she's doing it as your gift???

Jillian, on July 27, 2011 at 8:07 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 14

My hairstylist, who is also a friend, will be coming to the hotel & doing my hair for the wedding. She's told me that it will be my "gift" and she won't be charging me. Her and her FH are also invited to our wedding, so am I supposed to give her a "tip" for my hair? I'm confused on this one...

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Latest activity by Jennica Schneider, on August 2, 2011 at 12:18 AM
  • Stephanie
    Devoted November 2011
    Stephanie ·
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    Ooohhh... I'm in the same boat and would really appreciate any one's advice as well :/

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
    Kimi K ·
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    I would give her a tip on what her services would normally cost and in addition I would give her a small gift (a bottle of wine or her favorite liquor and thank you card would be perfect)

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  • ashlee
    Master January 2012
    ashlee ·
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    You always tip on the amount they would nnormally charge (and then some; if you like) so if the service would normally be. $150 then you would tip a minimum of. $30

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  • Mandee
    Super April 2012
    Mandee ·
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    I agree with the other ladies. Since she is a friend, you want her to know that her gift is appreciated. It would be a nice gesture and I am sure she would definitely appreciate it, even if it isn't expected.

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  • Darcy Goicochea
    Darcy Goicochea ·
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    I agree with Kimi K and Ana......I have done quite a few friends weddings as "gifts" and never expected a tip, but always got one. It's a nice gesture and let's them know you liked and appreciated their job. Good luck!!

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  • FMW ~ BatLlama
    Master May 2011
    FMW ~ BatLlama ·
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    I gave double what I would normally tip. So like 40-60%?

    Or a nice gift.

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  • FMS, the barefoot wife!
    Master August 2010
    FMS, the barefoot wife! ·
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    I would give a gift instead of a 'tip'

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  • DallasBride
    Devoted April 2012
    DallasBride ·
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    I would do a nice gift instead of a tip...If she is doing it as a gift, she may not take the tip.

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  • J
    Master November 2011
    J&R ·
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    I don't think you should tip on a gift, but a little thank you gift sounds more appropriate.

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  • Jillian
    Expert August 2011
    Jillian ·
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    Thanks for the feedback ladies! I think I'm going to give her a tip with a thank you card and a bottle of wine (she's kind of a wino... Smiley smile )

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  • NJ Bride
    VIP September 2011
    NJ Bride ·
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    I'd get her a gift card and/or a present of some sort. My minister is practically like an aunt to me, and not charging me to do the ceremony. Since she's a huge Steelers fan I'm going to get her a Steelers towel (from BB&B) and also give her a gift card to a nice restaurant or spa since she rarely takes the time to relax and spoil herself. Smiley smile

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  • VIP February 2020
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    Or, why not get her a gift card to maybe her favorite place to eat and a couple of movie tickets? So she can have a special date night with her other half or have a girls night and enjoy a night away from work? OR I definitely like the spa idea...that way you can make SURE she will be enjoying herself in someway instead of having a tip and not using it for herself to enjoy =)

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  • Jennica Schneider
    Jennica Schneider ·
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    I have done this as a "gift" as well. I never expected a tip but it was nice when i did recieve one. It does kind of even out if you "break even" on not having to pay her, then what she would have given you in a card, etc. But as a nice gesture, i would give at least a small token of your appreciation. Maybe a gift card, a bottle of wine, something to show your thanks!

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