Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Kristen
Savvy April 2021

Tipping etiquette for Day of Coordinator

Kristen, on February 14, 2020 at 1:21 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4
My venue comes with a day of coordinator which she will be with me the entire day making sure everything goes smoothly. The contract states there is a 20% gratuity fee which gets dispersed throughout the waitstaff only. Venue owner says I can tip the day or coordinator separately. What is a good amount to give?

4 Comments

Latest activity by Clíodhna, on February 18, 2020 at 7:06 AM
  • Hope
    Dedicated August 2020
    Hope ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    What a great question! I am wondering, too, as I am in the same situation.

    I did price out some local DOC and they all roughly start at 1K for the day. 20% of that would be $200.

    I guess in the end it depends on if she/he is worth that tip. I generally tip 20%+ for exceptional service.


    • Reply
  • Hope
    Dedicated August 2020
    Hope ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Okay... so according to this, the DOC doesn't usually receive a tip....


    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/wedding-tipping-guide



    • Reply
  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Daughter's wedding at a fairly inclusive venue included the event coordinator (salaried employee), who was absolutely fabulous for the 18 months daughter was planning her wedding and oversaw every detail, and a bridal attendant (an hourly employee) whose job was basically to follow daughter around all day of the wedding and make sure she never wanted for anything. We tipped the coordinator $200 (I am absolutely certain she didn't expect anything, but from the minute we met her, she was a huge factor in daughter's choice of that venue and she was amazing in every possible way), and we tipped the bridal attendant $100 (we were onsite at the venue for 9+ hours).

    • Reply
  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Hey there, Kristen! In your contract, does it state how much the fee is for the day of coordinator? Is the cost itemized and is this something you can see? If so, you could tip as a percentage of this based like you would any other service you're happy with!

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Explore how we embrace diversity

Groups

WeddingWire article topics