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Rebecca
Just Said Yes November 2019

Tip vendors... day of or after wedding?

Rebecca, on November 21, 2019 at 8:52 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4
Do I tip my vendors the day of it after the wedding with a thank you note?

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Latest activity by Cyndy, on November 22, 2019 at 9:19 AM
  • Caitlin
    Devoted September 2021
    Caitlin ·
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    So Jamie Wolfer has a great video on tipping etiquette with vendors!
    https://youtu.be/Wkzj9zo_wUw

    Personally I would say have everything settled on the day. You don't want to have to be chasing down vendors after your wedding is over. Typically someone in the wedding party is trusted with delivering the tips just so you don't have to worry about it on the day.
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  • Mandee
    Devoted September 2020
    Mandee ·
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    I'm planning on sending tips post ceremony with our thank you cards. Mostly because how am I supposed to evaluate how well to tip them until after the service is preformed? I'm going to see how they do and then send them either nice gifts or money. The only exception is the waitstaff, because I don't know if they would receive tips sent through the vendor

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey Rebecca!! I would say that it might be easiest to settle this the day of your wedding so that you don’t have to chase down vendors after you have finished working with them. You could ask someone in your bridal party to take charge of this, as long as you give them clearly labeled envelopes stating who each is for.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I had all of my thank you cards and tips ready the day of the wedding. One of my friends took responsibility and as vendors completed their job they were given their tip provided their were no major issues. I did actually hold a tip from a vendor because of the poor job they did.
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