I'm just curious on how anyone would feel if your fiance had a secret cellphone? I caught my fiance with a secret cellphone, for the second time and he swears he is not cheating but just wanted "privacy". It is totally not ok and he is trying to make me feel like it is my fault he had to go to such lengths to "be able to text whoever he wants " and that I have no right to know whom he texts. I was not able to look through the other cellphone bc he factory reset it. Yes i know its not healthy and that's a whole nother level of deciet but just curious on other women's thoughts and how you could ever trust them again. I was married for over thirteen years previously and never once had to "check up" on my partner, so this is just blowing my mind.