I'm sure there is posts close to this, I'm sorry I am just to lazy to look ! My FH likes my hair long, he really likes it straight. I have a strapless dress and am getting married memorial weekend, outside ceremony. The reception is inside/outside but no AC. I am in OH so I also have to work with humidity! I get really hot, and I normally can not wear my hair down for more than a couple of hours. Do you think people will think I am being a "Diva" ? This is my third marriage but my first "big" wedding. I was thinking of a up-do that will only take like 15 minutes to do? Of course it is if my hairdresser is willing to help me with a quick up-do.