So I was talking to my brother the other night and I realized my parents are going to have been married 35 years in July! I was thinking of maybe doing something really small, like just my parents, their close friends, myself, brother, husband and maybe my Mom's closest sister and her husband to celebrate it, but we want it to be a surprise ... but my question is ... is it seriously silly to do a surprise anniversary party, I mean 35 years isn't considered a huge anniversary like 25 or 50 ...