The stupidest thing I have seen in a long time

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Vom.mit.

I would answer w/ the video for this:

Do I vomit...or cry...or take some ibuprofen? I'm sad and hurty and pukey all at once from reading that.

@alyssa I actually dated a guy who believed in the whole "make me a sandwich" ideal. It was not a very good relationship on many accounts.

This disgusts me.

Huh, I wonder if he expects her to leave the operating room in the middle of a stat delivery to come home and suck his dick.

What the actual fuck?

Ok, so what about if I'm the provider? I make twice the money he does. Does that mean God expects him to clean the house and take care of the kids?!?

Yuck

PAGING LMAC!! This calls for that alien! Good lord, I wish you could've caught the wife's comment, Erin!

This is what I am picturing.

Reminds me of the guy my cousin married. He was "nice enough" to offer me and DD move in with them 3 states away so they could "raise DD up right and get me straightened out". It was really hard to not go off in the funeral home on the p.o.s.

This a crock of shit. I don't know if I can even say that

Me too, A Bride.

Shoot me in the face....pretty sure they would have me

Behind bars if my FH ever expected any of this!!

Where I used to work had a sign hung up in the back room with rules to a happy marriage. I read it once and was highly unappreciative with what it said. I think it takes two to be a relationship so why not do it together. I am a stay at home mom so I do most of the cooking and cleaning but FH has no problem running the sweeper, doing laundry, or dishes. He normally does the outside duties and I do inside until winter then we both work together.

WAIT A SEC...

People AREN'T getting married for help with the chores?

Am I doing this all wrong? I mean, FH is great and all but nothing gives me a wife-on like watching him do the dishes. Mmm-MMM! Dry that platter, baby. Dry it good. And later, I'm gonna make him polish the furniture til I'M satisfied!

Stupid, retrograde bullshit. And I'm so happy to live in a year when people recognise this as an isolated pocket of stupid rather than anything that should be taken seriously.

Sadly, I've seen stuff like this before : (. I have this to say...

Urgh this is exactly how my future in laws are , it's also how my FH wants things to be . We also have pre-martial classes with our pastor that help us with our God given "roles"0

I am a SAHM and I do make an extra effort to do things to make FH's life easier. He works a lot of hours outside the house, so it's far more difficult for him to work here. He cleans the kitchen every morning and mows the lawn once a week, but I do nearly everything else related to home. I cook, clean, run errands, handle appointments for the kids, attend school functions, do laundry, make FH's lunch, and so on. I enjoy it and for the most part I have a great deal of satisfaction knowing that I have been able to care for my family in this way. Not everyone is able due to finances or lack of desire (and I think that like any "job," it's not for everyone.) That being said, I've gone on strike when he and the kids haven't been appreciative and I am treated with respect.I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with taking care of ones family for a living, instead of having a career, but making it seem like a marriage will fail or Jesus will be sad if a woman doesn't slave for her man is inappropriate. -_-

How about...no?

We're both full grown adults capable of taking care of ourselves, we both work full time jobs and both take care of OUR house. I don't need protecting, he doesn't need a maid. We both try to do things to make each other's lives easier when we can, because a relationship is a two-way street, not...whatever this is.