So I went to my first shower which was for my fiancé’s sister. Well we actually were asked to host it in our house. So I didn’t go anywhere lol.
But it was the first shower I ever attended. All the girls were given an instruction to wear a floral print. I was never told this. Another girl came in shorts and a t-shirt, I guess she wasn’t told either! I wore a wheat colored dress, sort of a tan color with brown like wheat and it was a solid color.
So I really stood out against all the print dresses. And someone made a comment “you could wear that to your shower” and was perplexed, thinking why would I wear wheat (tan) to my shower. I guess didn’t know the color was off the table. In a picture that was taken, it reconfirmed for me that my dress was way different in color from the brides (hers was really white).
Then I went to her wedding. I knew her sisters which were in the wedding were wearing pink. I decided to wear orchid. The bride (my fiancé’s sister said pink and mauve were in their colors, so I thought orchid being more bright purple and less of a muted red-pink would be ok. Well one of the bridesmen asked me once we got there “what color are you wearing?” And I was like “orchid” and he was like “ohhh that is the color the bridesmaids are wearing” . Immediately slam face into hands!
Well turns out her sister still wore the pink like a pink with orange. And her future wife’s bridesmaids wore purple but a lighter version then my dress. I felt bad and used a Dark brown throw over and a big brown chunky necklace to try to minimize any purple I could.
Now it’s my wedding coming up and one of the brides friends who we nicely invited to our wedding messaged me on Facebook making a big deal to not match my bridesmaid colors.... and I told her my bridesmaids are wearing blue and green and I’m not going to tell our wedding guests they can’t wear that color, I want them to wear what makes them happy!
But has anyone run into so much issue with what you wear? I seriously could never get it right with her group of friends.
One thing is for sure I’ll never wear a wheat dress again to a shower, and I’ll always be a little nervous when picking out a dress color to a wedding.
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