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Skye
Just Said Yes October 2019

Thank you cards

Skye, on October 8, 2019 at 9:24 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 11
We are officially married!!! It was an absolutely incredible day. We spent some time the day after opening all of our gifts and reading each card. We got so many amazing things. Now it’s time to write thank you cards and I want to make sure they are genuine and show how grateful we are. Any tips on writing them? Timeframe we should have them out by? Should we add in a picture or just send the card itself?

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Latest activity by Kate, on October 14, 2019 at 11:26 AM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    I would send them asap and send a marriage announcement later if you want to send out the photos you get back. I would just stick with a simple "thank you so much for our wedding gift. We appreciate you taking the time to celebrate with us on our wedding day and it was so great to see you" sort of thing.

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I think guests always appreciate a simple but personal handwritten thank you Smiley smile

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    We waited for our pictures, and ordered thank you cards with a few pictures of us on the front and a generic "thank you from the new mr. and mrs. X" then the back was blank. I got all of ours sent out by 2 months after our wedding. I could have done it sooner but I wanted the pictures of us on them. I actually got compliments on sending them at all, sending personalized ones, and sending them out so quickly so that made me think a lot of people don't send them at all? I did 10 per night for a week straight and that made it easier. I had a station set up at our dining room table so I could address, stamp, write the thank you note, and seal it all at once. If my husband was home early, he helped with stamping & sealing. I sent them off 10 per day instead of waiting for them all to be done, I just wanted them sent.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Do some little by little because if you're like me, you had to have a lot aha.
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  • Cassandra7
    Super August 2006
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    Two weeks. Handwritten and sent by snail mail. At least four sentences expressing specific appreciation for the specific present you received. Mention that your spouse joins you in being delighted with the (specific) gift. If it was money, you might charmingly say what you plan to put it towards. Say it was nice to see them at the wedding (if they came) and hope to see them soon.

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  • Da Mom
    August 2022
    Da Mom ·
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    Definitely hand written. I wouldn't wait for photos unless you get some right away. You could always send a pic with your Christmas cards if you do them. Try to have them out in 2-3 weeks, a month at the latest. Congrats on a happy wedding!

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  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
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    I would send them out as soon as possible, as others have mentioned. Here was the basic flow I followed for each note


    Dear Mr & Mrs Smith

    Thank you so much for the wonderful *insert gift here*! We are so excited to display/use/decorate etc. with it! (If it's a gift card, maybe say "we can't wait to get some decorations with this! or something of the sort) It was so kind of you to help us start our married life together, we appreciate you(r) friendship.

    With love,

    The Brittains



    I learned it's best to mention the actual gift vs just saying thanks for your present as it is more personal.

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  • Reena
    Expert February 2021
    Reena ·
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    Handwritten and ASAP. Many of the weddings I have been to recently the couples never sent a thank you card.
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  • Sasha
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Hi,

    I had some guests come without gifts. Should I still send them thank you cards? Just like, "Thank you for coming and celebrating with us?"

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  • Kate
    Devoted November 2019
    Kate ·
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    This! I've been trying to get all of the pre-wedding thank you's out within a day or two of receiving the gift. We're going on our honeymoon right after the wedding, so I'll get through the rest of the thank you's as soon as we get back. I'm hoping to get them all out within a week of getting back from the honeymoon.

    One of my uncles mailed me a check last week, so I said that we would use it towards our honeymoon. I 100% agree that if the gift is $ or a gift card, it's important to give the giver some idea of what you plan to do with the funds, whether it's home improvements, paying for the honeymoon, going out to dinner, etc.

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