I'm having a black-tie optional wedding in a downtown hotel ballroom, and my dress is a beaded ball gown, so the tone of our wedding is pretty formal. However, I don't want my groomsmen to rent or buy tuxes-- two of them are fresh out of college and three are in entry-level jobs, and it seems silly to spend so much money on a tuxedo whenever I'd rather they each invest in a suit that they will wear after the wedding (and that they feel comfortable in.) I figured they could each purchase a black suit and white shirt of their choosing, and I would buy them all ties to match the bridesmaids' dresses. I'm worried, though, that this will not be dressy enough for our venue. Has anyone else done this? Thoughts?