Stripper Wounds... Why???

At the best mans graduation party a couple years ago, there was a stripper there and she whipped him with a belt and he literally had a welt on his back for months!!! He did tell the strippers to leave right after that happened though cuz he was pissed!!

I personally know seven strippers who all work at different clubs, anywhere from upscale to trashy places, and I have NEVER EVER heard of this! WTF?!

Um i so would not be okay with this. i know my man doesnt want anything to do with a strip club or strippers for his bachelor party even though i don't care if he does honestly. But if he came home with "stripper wounds" i don't think i would be happy about that at all

I'm not surprised at all by the idea of people enjoying something like this. if you can imagine it, someone is getting off on it.

but I am surprised by the idea of it being done by a stripper at a bachelor party.

from what I hear it's pretty common, but if people are engaging in things like that, there's supposed to be rules and guidelines. not the sort of thing that should be done in a environment like a bachelor party.

could get easily out of hand.

I've never heard of this... Even with lap dances that's not typical at all. I mean there's usually not a crazy amounts of touching where they'd get scratched... They dance on you not have kinky sex with you....

I'm on stripper explanation watch 2013.

my fh enjoys the strip clubs as much as the next guy- but with me! Not sure how I would react to actual wounds right before the wedding. I'm not even sure FH knows what twerking is so this explanation ought to be good!

I'm watching for an explanation. I asked a gf who was a stripper & she said she's never heard of that in just stripping...

And Stripper Explanation Watch 2013 has officially come to a close! FH got in about an hour ago, and as it turns out, the scratching is pretty minor. Apparently that came from strippers climbing up him to stand on is shoulders in stilettos. The far more evident marks were giant welt-y bruises from "big leather stick things," which they apparently just repeatedly hit him with over and over. According to FH, this is all called "being a sacrifice" and was incredibly painful, but still somehow a fun experience. I asked if I should bring a big leather stick on the honeymoon, and he declined, LOL.

Oh wow... um why? did he want to be climbed on by a stripper and hit by a giant leather stick... ? hmmm... my openness of my FH having a stripper is suddenly not so open... that sounds terrible! i'm kinda in shock... lol

Usually they are in your lap (hints lap dance) I want to know about why she was standing on his shoulders... Was she rubbing her butt on his head or what. There's nothing seductive about piggy back rides. Lol.

The difference is they had a private for hire stripper, who likely specializes in parties, versus an in club stripper where the environment is more controlled

This can't be acceptable behavior anywhere. Going to a stripper club shouldn't end up with marks, wounds & bruises. Boys will be boys but this is some kind of BS

OMG, are you in Amsterdam or something?

Edit: They actually did that???? OMG! Now I'm not sure it will be SAFE for FI to get strippers! xD

I gotta say, I'm very happy FH outgrew his stripper phase.

If DH ever came home with so much as as a "stripper papercut", he'd be in trouble.

It really disgusts me. I know there's nothing I can do about it once FH is out of my sight and at his bachelor party, but it would seriously bother me if he came home with shit like that.

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stripper explanation watch 2013

Bahaha! Best.show.ever!!!

I wouldn't care. I'd definitely be on him about getting his shots tho!!!! Lol!!! Plus, I'd be lmao, all "you wince if I scratch you, but between t*tties and Captain, THIS was ok?!"

Wow... I'm pretty sure if that happens to FH he's going to be very VERY pissed and might "slap a hoe."

I still want to know why she was on his shoulders lol.

Michelle, instead of picturing her on his shoulder like a piggy back ride, picture her facing the other direction...