Step-dad pulls out of wedding - not my story

I don't think it's the daughter's fault. It seems like the mom idolized real dad, so of course being raised like that, she would feel step dad as inadequate.

But there are some elements to the story that seem a little bit..too exaggerated to me.

Holy Crap! I agree with step-dad 100%. That was heartless. Despite him spoiling her..she should have shown some gratitude and respect. I was spoiled as hell growing up. FH spoils my son beyond belief. But respect and appreciation are a MUST!

While I agree with the step-dad's position, I don't know if I agree with how he went about it. Like others have said, he raised her for 10 years, he had to have at least some inkling of how she would act. I don't think that he was in the wrong for pulling his funding, but I feel like they maybe should have talked about it first. Rather than "No one respects me, so I'm pulling my money, good luck paying for your wedding now", maybe it should have been an "I am feeling incredibly snubbed and would like to see a change in respect if I am to continue funding this wedding". Then maybe the daughter (and mother) would have realized how horribly they were treating him.

I agree with Julia, there is more to it than that. She was probably feeling very hurt that her "real dad" was not involved and didn't think about how it would affect her step dad. Pulling the money out a week before the wedding is just immature. He should have insisted that his guests were invited and raised his issues with her beforehand.

But also, I don't think this is a true story lol.