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Amanda
Master August 2013

Spin-off: Is there any way to prevent the clinking glasses?

Amanda, on March 11, 2013 at 8:58 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 29

Add clinking glasses to get the B&G to kiss to the list of wedding traditions that I do not care for. Has anyone discovered a successful way to get around it? Just not responding when guests start clinking glasses, having the DJ make an announcement (although that could just make it worse),...

Add clinking glasses to get the B&G to kiss to the list of wedding traditions that I do not care for. Has anyone discovered a successful way to get around it? Just not responding when guests start clinking glasses, having the DJ make an announcement (although that could just make it worse), anything?

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  • HisMrs
    Master September 2012
    HisMrs ·
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    How we stopped the clinking glasses: by probably the 24th clink, I turned and kissed my MOH and hubby turned and kissed his best man. =)

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  • MJ
    Master June 2013
    MJ ·
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    MCDJ I think your right, anyone that clinks has to kiss everyone at their table would work.

    My daughter requested plastic glasses for that reason. She says there will be no clinking of anything at her reception. I think as long as you don't kiss the first time they probably will get tired of clinking pretty quick.

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  • Lirana
    VIP October 2013
    Lirana ·
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    I thought I had one on Pinterest, but I can't find it. People have made a "list" of things you have to do to get the couple to kiss instead of glasses clinking.

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  • Lirana
    VIP October 2013
    Lirana ·
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    I found one on google. Larger image can be seen here.


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  • Jamie
    Super May 2013
    Jamie ·
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    Am I the only one that thinks it's cute? It's your wedding day, you're supposed to me all mushy and lovey dovey....says the girl who will probably get annoyed.

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  • Ms. M
    VIP December 2012
    Ms. M ·
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    The clinking didn't last very long for us. I think they stopped ten minutes into dinner. They seemed to get bored with it. Plus, there really wasn't much time for it. Dinner went quickly and was immediately followed by toasts and dancing.

    We went to a wedding before ours where the bride yelled, after the clinking started, "we are not doing that, it's annoying." I guess it was just the way she said it, but it noticeably changed the mood. I told H I would rather put up with it than ruin the lively, happy atmosphere.

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  • Megan
    Expert April 2013
    Megan ·
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    Ooo i love the kissing menu Smiley smile i realize the clinking is all fun and gmaes but why not get the guests in on the games

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  • Rieski
    Dedicated January 2015
    Rieski ·
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    At my nephews wedding when the glasses were clinked, they drew a name out of a hat (decorated box, in which couples names had been placed). The couple they drew had to stand and kiss instead of the B&G. It was kinda cute when grandma and grandpa had to kiss, or another older couple, or the couple where the man had just returned from Iraq. I'm pretty sure the couples in the hat were somehow rigged.

    I also like the "sing me a song" idea

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  • Cassandra Elliott
    Cassandra Elliott ·
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    @ Amy V. "My friend had people sing a sing with the word "love" in it if they wanted them to kiss. It was adorable. "

    I was a vendor at a wedding where they did this. The dj announced that the entire table had to sing a chorus of a song with Love in it. The entire table! So, it only happened 3 or 4 times. But it sure was entertaining to see the tables do it!

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