Hi everyone- my sister got engaged about 4 months after me, and promised me her wedding would be a year after mine. She just moved the date up to 3 months after my wedding and I am pissed and thinking about asking her to not be my maid of honor: she is clearly too busy doing her own wedding to help me out now. My mom is on her side, since my sister says it's the only way she can be happy. Am I right to be a little angry? I know it will still be my special day, but family and friends from out of town are probably going to choose either my wedding or hers, and that makes my wedding feel less special. Am I being a bridezilla here or am I sane in wanting my wedding to be special and just about me?