Our wedding is a little over a month away - invites have been sent out and everyone has been planning their travel arrangements since we decided to have our wedding 6 hours away as a destination type wedding. We had planned for some part of the money portion of it, and then planned to get a loan or line of credit for the different - I know, I know, bad way to start a marriage but we didn’t really have the money to save more than we did. Well, now we ended up not getting approved for any loan or anything and because of it, we are trying to decide what to do.
My fiancé asked for some help from his family members but they haven’t given us too much of a response yet and my mom said she’d give $4000, but it will be unfortunately a lot more than those amounts plus what we already have. We cancelled our honeymoon since we didn’t want to pay the rest of it off and use money for that, and we have to pay our photographer the rest of their money next week, but we don’t know if we should if we cancel. I’m not sure what else to do at this point - my family will never speak to me again if we cancel this late in the game because we didn’t plan properly with the money side of it. My bridesmaid got their dresses and my mom spent a good chunk of money on my dress, as well. I’m not looking for any “I told you so” or anything thing like that, so please try not to give that type of response because I will probably have a mental breakdown lol. Has anyone cancelled last minute for their wedding? Any advice you can give would be swell, thank you!
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