I'm really concerned about my love handles because I'm always drawn to really fitted styles when I look at wedding dresses online. I want to have a beautiful silhouette in the dress, not a lumpy one. I'm wondering if I need some Spanx. I haven't tried on any name brand shapewear, but the shapewear I tried on didn't help with love handles except for this one thing that has boning and goes around your waist. The problem with that one was that it made my hips look huge in comparison. I'm just afraid that I'm going to be embarassed by how fitted dresses look on me during my appointment, but shapewear is expensive. Is it worth spending the money on Spanx? Also, does anyone have any tips on shopping for shapewear?