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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Short or Long Engagement?

Lynnie, on April 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Community Conversations 322

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How much time are you giving yourselves to plan the big day? Will your engagement be short or long?


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  • Krystin
    Expert October 2019
    Krystin ·
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    Short! Less than 10 months!

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  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2020
    Whitney ·
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    Long. 1 year and 8 months from our engagement

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  • Mrs.
    Super May 2019
    Mrs. ·
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    Short - under 6 months. Now down to 1 month!

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  • Regina
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Regina ·
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    Been engaged since 02/13/19 and the wedding is 06/27/2020.
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  • Sarah
    Dedicated September 2019
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    13 months for me--longer than I think is necessary, but plenty of time to plan with less stress. 5 months to go now, and I hope they fly by!

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    For me, it seemed long: 1 year and 1 month.

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  • M
    Savvy October 2019
    Marah ·
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    Pretty average! "Long" 1 year and 10 months.
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  • Leah
    Devoted August 2019
    Leah ·
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    Short-ish!! About 9 months
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  • Jordan
    Expert September 2019
    Jordan ·
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    Kind of short...9 months for me!

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  • G
    Dedicated November 2021
    Gabriela ·
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    Long, and it seems like forever! Smiley cry not intentional to have such a long engagement but since we both are highly involved in football at all levels we didn't want to stress last season or this so adding extra time to plan and make sure we're well outside of playoff range and before spring ball for our actual wedding and honeymoon

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  • Iris
    Expert May 2019
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    Super Long... It’ll be exactly 33 months and 14 days on our wedding day (almost 3 years!). On our defense, I’m in med school and couldn’t do it before 😂
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  • Kayleecarthel
    Beginner June 2020
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    Our wedding will be a year and a half after our engagement.
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  • Lexi
    Dedicated August 2020
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    Super long!!! xD We got engaged June of 2017 and we will be getting married fall of 2020. My fiance has been in nursing school so I really wanted him to have the chance to finish before wedding planning got started. He now graduates after this summer!! Smiley smile His degree is SO much harder than mine so I wanted him to be able to fully focas on graduating. I'm going for business. We decided to take turns him first then me. I also like to take my time and not be rushed so it will be over 3 years by the time we actually get married Smiley smile

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  • Sara
    Expert June 2019
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    I guess pretty short, we were engaged Aug 1 2018, and the wedding will be June 15 2019. We didn't really start planning anything until Nov 2018. I'm happy with the length of the engagement!

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  • Juliette
    Savvy August 2019
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    Very short! We got engaged in March, and say “I do” in August.
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  • Madelyn
    Expert August 2019
    Madelyn ·
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    Average? Or short I guess haha our engagement will be right at 11 months
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  • kymarmck
    Super March 2020
    kymarmck ·
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    Long! When we get married next March it'll be a little over 2 year engagement!

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  • L
    Expert June 2019
    Lori ·
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    Long, a little more than a year
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  • Clara
    Dedicated August 2019
    Clara ·
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    Short. 200 days exactly. About 6.5 months
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  • Amber
    Dedicated June 2019
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    We gave ourselves a 14 month engagement. At the time, it seemed like forever and now that we're less than 2 months away, I feel like it wasn't even close to enough time!!
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