I am getting married in a Catholic church with the reception at the hall run by the church. I already know I'm going to get flats for the reception but I have no idea what to wear for the ceremony. Our Deacon has already said they follow a very formal dress code (i.e. no shoulders or tattoos should show, etc.) so I'm nervous about heels but I don't want boring flats for the ceremony. Has anyone run into this or have advice on what to wear? My dress is a long very plain sleeveless dress made of satin (it has pockets!!) if that helps at all!