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Rebelle Fleur
Master July 2021

Separate Transportation To Venue To Avoid First Look

Rebelle Fleur, on February 16, 2020 at 5:58 PM Posted in Planning 0 5
Hello Lovers of Love,


I want to avoid my fiancé seeing me in my dress until the actual ceremony but he wants to rent a classic car to take us to and pick us up from the venue. We will also be providing transportation for the bridesmaids, groomsmen and family that has to fly in. The original plan was to rent a party bus that seats about 55 for about 30 guests who are coming from out of state and the 20 bridesmaids/groomsmen and then a Rolls Royce for us. However, when I went over my plans with my photographer about the schedule for the day he asked if I wanted to do a first look and I declined. It didn’t dawn on me until later that it would mean I would have to get a separate vehicle for myself or we should separate the bridesmaids/groomsmen and we all arrive with our separate parties and the out of town guests in a separate vehicle as well. That’s going to add about 500$-1k to our budget depending on what kind of vehicles we decide on, if we have to rent three different vehicles. Is the “first look” moment more impactful during the ceremony or is it better just to do it beforehand to save money? I really like the tradition of not seeing the bride in her dress until the ceremony. Should I just stick to my vision and shell out the cash ?

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Latest activity by Givemeallthepups, on February 16, 2020 at 9:01 PM
  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
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    Can your fiancé travel with his parents or other family members? Or drive himself, and someone drives his car back after, or he could go in the van you already rented with everyone else. Those seem to be the most logical options, rather than renting a whole other vehicle. You could also ask if the Rolls driver will bring you individually, him first and then you.

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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    Thanks Susie.... I think two trips would probably be best. That’s a great idea !!!
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  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
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    You’re welcome! Even if they charge per trip, it would be much cheaper than a whole other vehicle. What a great idea to get a Rolls!

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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
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    He insisted on it! We both decided we’d allow three things each we wouldn’t skimp on and that was his.
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  • Givemeallthepups
    Expert February 2020
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    You could also ride in the rolls Royce and have him ride in a shuttle with guests (depending on how far it is). No one cares about seeing the groom before the ceremony.
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