Second wedding jitters

We have the same date! Yah, all the time. I hate cleaning & cooking sometimes. Also, he gets up early in the morning and goes to bed early, I usually stay up late while he goes to bed. When I know he would LOVE it if I went to bed with him. I just work later and can't go home and straight to bed.

This is both of our second marriages and I know I am concerned too. Not about being married just the same as you. You definetly are not alone. Glad to know I am not alone either.

Same date here too!

I actually have no concerns at all. We are very "real" with one another and that is not going to change after marriage. I am who I am and he is who he is and we take any faults as they come.

We value each other and put the others needs first. Doing this, I dont think you can go wrong. But in saying that I'm sure we'll all make mistakes... but we'll also grow from them and hopefully laugh along the way.

I'm definitely having the second marriage jitters. Since we've been together, I have been doing everything in my power to make sure things don't go the way they did with my ex. We're doing great and we get along well. We talk abut everything and I feel comfortable being me. The only issue is my ex was very controlling and lazy. I had to do EVERYTHING on his time and it was taxing emotionally, mentally, and physically. I find myself sometimes being a little hard on my FH just to make sure I don't end up in that position again and I know it may not be fair. Working on it... I hope it works out for everyone. Good luck :-)

I think for me it's more of a feeling, not wanting to fail. I look at the first marriage as a failure. After all we promised to be together forever, and look how that turned out - the big D. The thought that comforts me is that my FH is completely amazing. There is not one thing about him that makes me question that this love is not only real but it is going to last. I think its normal to worry about going through those bad times again.