I need some advice, last year, my partner and I received a save the date from and old friend in our home town. We’ve always been good friends but because we live far away don’t see the couple much. So we were surprised for the save the date but said we’d make the effort and have kept the weekend free.
The wedding is now 2 months away and we have not heard anything. I asked a mutual friend if they had their invite and they said yes, a while ago and rsvp date was 2 weeks ago.
That same evening I received an evening invitation as maybe the website they have organised it through gave them a notification as I was clicking on the save the date.
A s it’s such a distance and the way this has all been handled I no longer want to go and am embarrassed to be honest.
But how do I rsvp? Should I say she’s been rude? And is it usual etiquette to only send a save the date to day guests? Or do I just ignore it? We moved around holiday dates for them too, so am annoyed by the situation and the lack of them being honest with us, any advice would be great!
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