Sad bride

Poor child.. her new step-mom thinks she is pure evil... I feel bad for this girl.

Shame on you Sandra.

Before you make these unrealistic comments my dear, to events that you have no idea of my dear , I suggest you read up on reconstituted families getting married, how some step kids will do what ever it takes to ruin a new marriage , whom will go as far as sabotaging weddings.
Then once you've done your home work my dear get back to me on this.

She is 22 and recently married.

The world is a scary place out there

She just wants attention, so sad... event though she will be in white you will be the only one noticeable

Thank you for those words ...nice ...by the way your dress look so beautiful wow..

View Quoted Comment How are you. ? The Christmas season is soon here. I'm trying to cher up by letting my creative talents fly

Kids are tough when it comes to remarriage and that can include adults. I'm becoming a step and it's a process. The 9yr old is a little resentful that he cant come to Jamiaca on the honeymoon. You need to give it time. I understand that there are red flags but your husband is in a tough spot depending on the history. She probably has always been able to manipulate her dad to get what she wants. Dont give away your power and allow her to see you sweat or turn into a bridezilla. She wants you to look like the upset fool. Always seem open to building that relationship and insist that your husband help facilitate that. I would insist on counseling to discuss how to make this a positive transition where you dont feel disrespected. You can spin it that you need to learn some ways to make that better and support him when really it will be about how he is making you feel. Make it a point to not sweat the small stuff and focus on your marriage. His daughter will get over it eventually.

View Quoted Comment I have tried to make a good relationship with his daighter . She has a reputation of using people for what she wants and needs and then tries to disgard of the people in a really malicious way.
She has no respect for me and it diesnt matter what I mention to him but he will take her side expressing it's his daughter. She dies what ever she wants in order to sabotage things to her satisfaction .
She doesnt like me at all. And yes he is in a tough position and he feels hes in thr middle. I'm not the one who put him in the middle . He doesnt want to say anything negative to her or say anything cause he doesnt want to make her sad or upset her. It diesnt seem to matter when he upsets me about it.Who doesnt that. His daughter creates her bridal shower a week before our wedding and a stag and do a week after our wedding. She new we were going away but she pleaded with him. We cancelled our plans for one place and ended up going somewhere else. The day before the stag and do the day of and day after, making him feel guilty that he wasnt there, sending him pictures of how much fun they had and wishing he was there, . So that indeed ruined the rest of the holiday which ended teo days later. Teo weeks before the wedding all we did was argue about going or not going to thr stag and do. He wanted to go stating it's his daighters special event and that it was more important than us , I was so hurt .

View Quoted Comment The wedding was awful. Everything g that could possibly go wrong went wrong . His daughter contributed to sabatoging . I'm so sad

View Quoted Comment I've been giving it 7 years of time.
She has stolen from me right in front of him from my shoes to clothing books . Making a huge drama put of it .
Two days before wedding , we all me to go out to eat. I received a text from the makeup hair girl reminding me to tell his daughter that she must be at the hotel at 2 to get her self fixed up . I told his daighter the message and right infornt of everyone sha said she took the daily off from work and was very excited to get beautified.As we all filed out after eating, she was crying . Big drama show. I come to find out that she thought the wedding the 20th and not the 19th.All the invitations were corrected with the nee date of the 19th. Apparently she took a picture of it and waited a few days before and planned to make it look like I only told her the 20th . Over and over again throughout the year we told her , emailed and texted that the wedding was the 19th. . That night he was very made at me . So from everything bring about his daughter when we had and going through pre wedding stuff as in photograpghter , chòsing rings, cake tasting, ...I'll give you and example : we met the photgraoghter . No sooner do we meet him , then he starts talking about his daughter getting married. I have a friend that makes wine for a living, she wanted to give us a case for pur wedding. I drink wine he does not. So, he says why dont we give it to her for her wedding .Another couple congratulated us. Not on our wedding but his daughter. Another couple thought when we told them to save the date it was for his daighters wedding He new how much an October wedding meant to me and I would tell him my dreams of this. So when I april we announced our wedding and I coose october he screamed put that's to far and then I chose September and the answer was the same . So randomly , which I think back now he said what about January. I remended him that's when he got married the first and January is even further away than October. So I picked july with the desire that our honeymoon was to be in octber with all the colors . He agreed. A month later had to cancel the honey moon and make it for july cause his daighter was getting married when we were leaving. I thought this odd. Never questioned it though.His girl is 22 and his boy 15.To accommodate her I kept canceling and canceling everything g that I took time to plan. Two weeks before the wedding argued about the stag and do then 2 days before argued that it was my fault that she got an invite saying the 20th. On the picture that he showed me it strictly shows without a doubt that the sticker was peeled off. Even the emails and texts indicates the 19th. He didnt care it was what his daighter was saying which was important. She even wanted to invite her mom his ex to wedding . Never asking me what I thought.She even handed out invites to her wedding stating since everyone she wanted to invite was here made it easier .....she complained that she was not in pictures when we were trying to get pictures done. .I dint know what to do anymore ....

Breathe hunny, 😊 all eyes will still be on you. It's your day, not hers. And if she acts up just use your momma voice and
Growl.
Xox you got this.

View Quoted Comment Thanks for the advice . Not to sure when you write this but it just showed up. The wedding was a disaster.
I could not growl nor use my voice. All I could do was cry .
His daughter did everything to sabotage it . And when I thought I could not get any worse his under age sin was caught drinking beer. In the contract it does say if any under age drinking then all will be asked

View Quoted Comment Omg! Does your FH allow this behavoir??? Im sorry that happened. In my family that daughter would get major punishment. It was supposed to be your day!

View Quoted Comment Wait what?!

View Quoted Comment The evening became worse and worse as it went on.


Two weeks before our wedding his

Him heading to bed right now il let you know more tomorrow ...just fell down stairs...very bad day all around ...talk tomorrow ....thanks for listening to me by the way