Hello all! Looking for some guidance on the invite/rsvp front. FH and I finally nailed down venue and date and are getting married October 10, 2020. We are planning to get our engagement photos shot next month and want to get invites out by Thanksgiving, because our wedding is a “destination” wedding. (We live in North Dakota, wedding is in Deadwood, SD 8 hrs away from us and virtually everyone lives out of state, either 4+ hrs away in ND or elsewhere and flying in)
That said, people will receive their invites by December, so when is a good time to request RSVPs by? A lot of other forums and websites recommend 4-5 weeks prior to the wedding date for catering/final counts but that’s 9-10 months between guest receiving them and that feels way too long.
Any advice or recommendations on what time frame or approx date we should request RSVPs by?
I know we can do save the dates first and invites next year but that’s just extra $$$ we don’t want to spend when it’s already going to be a 5 figure wedding 😅
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