RSVP Change form No to Yes Changed One Week Before Wedding...Am I Aweful

Edited for reading comprehension issues. No - you are not horrible. Don't stress yourself out. You are in the right here, and don't need to bend over backwards to try and accommodate them.

I don't think you're terrible. They RSVP'd no. That's a big expense and headache to worry about week of. For example, our venue is $140pp including admin fees and taxes, so that would be almost $300 to worry about week of the wedding. Don't worry about it!

No, you aren't horrible. How'd she take it?

Hey, there's a reason we have deadlines for RSVPs. You're not terrible at all.

Nope.

You asked for an RSVP- they said no.

Boom- done.

You are not a horrible person.

Nope she said no so no. I wouldn't stress at all. Keep it moving.

Nope, not horrible at all, they originally RSVP'd no do they're loss.

You aren't horrible, I'm sure they are aware of how weddings work and that you need numbers early

She was understanding about it, I just felt kind of aweful!

This wedding planning stuff is stressful! Every week I'm say, "This week should be better and maybe I'll get some sleep." but nope! Something new comes up every week that stresses me out, and I've been pretty laid back about things and accepting what I have no control over.

I'm looking forward to it all coming together and being able to enjoy the night.

You're not awful (there is no e in awful, fyi). Though pretty much every venue can easily accommodate 2 extra people and actually plan ahead for the possibility of more people showing up beyond the final count.

Its just a matter of a quick phonecall and saying 'hey, can we add 2 more to the headcount? please let us know the price difference'. If you dont want to do that, thats totally fine (i wouldnt, unless they were someone close to me) - but its seriously not worth stressing over. You're going to drive yourself insane if you choose to work yourself up over every little hiccup.

Nope. You gave them a deadline. They said no. If they had changed before the deadline it would be different but its not.

You made the right call - I wouldn't lose any sleep over it!