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Jouselle
Super October 2011

Reversing the receiving line!

Jouselle, on September 21, 2011 at 7:09 PM Posted in Planning 0 12

Since my ceremony and reception are in one big room, trying to figure out how some elements will go has been vexing. But I got a genius idea to even out one of the wrinkles in the day! I'm going to do a reverse receiving line! All the guests (there's only 70 of them) can stand in line, and as wedding party members are introduced by the DJ, they can go down the line and say hi to people. That removes some unnecessary in and out of the room, and that way both elements can be included! I might even split the line in two so they're parallel. The line will be shorter and the line won't have to snake around.

I feel like a GENIUS!

Edit: after getting this feedback, I feel more like an idiot :p

12 Comments

Latest activity by dragonfly726, on September 22, 2011 at 10:15 AM
  • Analy aka T-waffle
    Master October 2009
    Analy aka T-waffle ·
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    *facepalm* Please, for the love of pizza, do not subject your wedding party to the receiving line. It's bad enough when the bride and groom do it.

    Also, so that means there is NO break between ceremony and reception? No pictures, no reason to leave the room/ flip the room? Yea...what?

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  • Glenn
    Master February 2012
    Glenn ·
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    Never do a receiving line, they are so awful.

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  • Sabrina
    Master November 2014
    Sabrina ·
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    Just "Receive" them while they are eating or dancing or talking... plenty of time to touch base with ppl while you're at the reception.

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  • Jouselle
    Super October 2011
    Jouselle ·
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    O.O really? I've been told that a receiving line is better than trying to stop and see every person during the reception.

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  • Jouselle
    Super October 2011
    Jouselle ·
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    Maybe this explains it a bit better

    Ceremony

    inside photos

    outside photos

    guests line up inside

    DJ announces us as we enter from outside and dance down the line of guests, stopping for handshakes and hugs.

    We all sit and eat!

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  • Jen H.
    Master October 2012
    Jen H. ·
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    You're having a relatively group of guests (we are estimating about 70 as well), there should be no problem "mingling" with everyone at the reception. FH and I were kinda on the fence about it, but we asked our folks and they all voted mingle over receiving line. =)

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  • Caitlin
    Super January 2012
    Caitlin ·
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    I dont think lineing up the guest will go over well. I vote mingle as well.

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  • Glenn
    Master February 2012
    Glenn ·
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    Receiving lines SUCK. Just make a point to get to each table during the reception that shouldn't be too hard.

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  • Mandee
    Super April 2012
    Mandee ·
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    Since your numbers are so low, skip the receiving line ad just make a visit to each table during the reception. No one wants to stand in line and wait to be spoken to for 5 seconds. If you visit every table throughout your event, you can spend a little more time with your guests and it won't take nearly as long as you think it will.

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  • Jouselle
    Super October 2011
    Jouselle ·
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    Okies. Thank you very much for the feedback Smiley smile

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  • VIP August 2020
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    Agreed- receiving lines are awful- as an alternative, we are doing a dollar dance, BUT instead of keeping the $$ we are doing donations to a few different organizations in honor of a few loved ones that wont be with us.

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  • dragonfly726
    Master October 2011
    dragonfly726 ·
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    Another idea you could try that is similar to this would be to release your guests yourselves after the ceremony. My aunt and uncle did this at their wedding and it worked out great. Here's how it works - After the ceremony you have your traditional recessional where you all walk back down the aisle. Then, instead of your ushers releasing guests one row at a time, you and FS come back in and stand at the end of a row. You get to hug/speak to each guest. This will move faster than a typical receiving line because it is just you & FS, not the whole wedding party, and your guests will be eager to exit the ceremony, so most won't want to chat for very long.

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