Removing a bridesmaid

Bye Felicia 💃

I agree with other posters. Given the thanksgiving situation she won't be too surprised when you talk to her.

I would just text her or call her and say "It seems like we are growing apart and I can't help but feel that you aren't happy for me and my fiance, so with that being said i think its best that we just go our separate ways and you don't have to worry about being in my wedding. I hope that helps

I would just take her to lunch and just have an honest conversation. Explain how you feel with "I" statements so she doesn't feel like you are trying to corner her....explain that you love this man and why. If she had concerns over your safety I can understand, but if it's nothing like that, then people should be keeping their ideas to themselves. If you want to let her go from the party, just explain to her you need her support but can't have that negativity at this time. If she's your friend or closer, she should understand her place.

Oh no that’s awful! I would say just be straightforward about the situation. If you’re truly not happy about all of this and how they’re treating your future husband then you gotta just let them go and remain happy. Your day needs to be stress free and you shouldn’t have anyone standing beside you on your wedding day who doesn’t even like your future husband. If they don’t want him there, then don’t expect you to come, you both are one. It’ll be okay just be honest and let her know.