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NatHam
VIP October 2017

Relaxed- Anyone else NOT stressed 2-3 weeks before their wedding? normal?

NatHam, on September 29, 2017 at 9:45 AM Posted in Planning 0 29

Hey everyone!

Anyone else super calm and not stressed and you are only a few weeks from the wedding? Is this even normal? I feel like I read things and see so many people stressed. I am wishing I had something to.

Only a few weeks until the big day!

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Latest activity by Constance, on September 29, 2017 at 2:18 PM
  • sam
    Devoted October 2017
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    I feel pretty relaxed as well!! The only thing that would make me worried at this point is my FH and his dad are building barn wood doors for me to walk through at our outdoor ceremony and I'm worried they won't be done in time for me to paint. But it's not that huge of a deal if I can't paint them so I'm not super worried. Everything else is pretty much set and good to go! I'm super excited!!

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  • FutureMrsBurroughs
    VIP October 2017
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    Our wedding is next Saturday and I am strangely calm. Starting to think there is something wrong since we still have so much to do.

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  • caitlin
    Super May 2017
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    I felt pretty zen for the last couple of weeks. my bachelorette was 2 weekends before, and that's when it really sunk in for me that it was happening and i felt ready. even in all the running around the last couple days before, i felt pretty chill. it's a good headspace to go into it with!!

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  • NatHam
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    @Sam - I am the same way about some decorations my mom wanted to do. If they don't get done, oh well! lol

    @FutureMrsBurroughs - that is a great way to explain it. strangely calm! I agree..

    People keep asking me "are you excited, nervous, stressed?" lol Just excited

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  • Maria
    Expert September 2017
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    I was really stressed the week and two before the wedding. This week, I'm for the most part calm (probably because I'm caught up). I had a hiccup yesterday that stressed me out, but FH took care of it since he knew I've been a hot mess over everything bahaha. I had my bachelorette this past Sunday and that REALLY helped me calm down.

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  • Laura
    Devoted October 2017
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    I am calm as well but excited ,im more concerned with us moving in to our new spot next week Every one has asked me am I ready and etc... and just like im excited ready to be his wife

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  • NatHam
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    Calm before the storm maybe?! lol!

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  • Hannah
    Super August 2017
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    I was not nervous at all before my wedding except for I got a little nervous the night before after our rehearsal dinner. Our rehearsal and dinner was kind of a cluster so I was afraid our wedding was going to be too. But the day of I was perfectly calm and didn't get nervous one bit not even before walking down the aisle (and I didn't have anything to drink either!)

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  • ErleneJ
    Dedicated October 2017
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    It's been smooth sailing for me as well! I don't generally stress about things but I'm starting to feel a little busier with last minute things, but still calm. I even had NO RSVP Drama!! Our deadline is Monday, and I am only waiting on about 4 more "officially" even though they have unofficially said they were coming. Good luck!!

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  • SarahHoff
    Expert October 2017
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    I think my brain is just refusing to believe my wedding is 2 weeks from today. Whenever I think about it too hard I start to get panicky. But it just doesn't seem to be sinking in that it is so close.

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  • Kate
    Savvy October 2017
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    Me! I have a lot to do this weekend but am totally relaxed about it

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  • Johanna
    Expert October 2017
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    It still seems so surreal.. I had a mini freak out last night but other than that I am pretty calm. I try not to "look at the mountain" too much and just do one thing at a time to avoid getting overwhelmed. Can't wait for it to be here/over though!

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  • NatHam
    VIP October 2017
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    I am glad we are all doing great! I think it will make a world of difference on our day! The only thing I have to do is make the place cards, but my seating chart is already done.. so I just have to print the cards

    @Erlene, my RSVPS went surprisingly smooth too. I have a couple people I had to follow up with but that's all. I think that was my biggest stress.

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  • Kristen
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    I get married next Saturday and I'm actually pretty calm... I probably shouldn't be considering I still have a decent amount of things to get done. The only thing I'm really freaking out about is the weather, the one thing I can't control :l

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  • Bunnycita
    Super October 2017
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    Im very calm as well! Have my dentist appt and hair-make up trial today (3rd one-I wasn't convinced with the last 2). Im excited but calm. Maybe next week I will start feeling hyper lol

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  • Tallah
    VIP October 2017
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    I'm pretty relaxed. All is pretty much done and I'm ready to pass things over to my DoC. BUT ALSO I'M SO EXCITED. LOOK AT MY CAPSLOCK.

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  • pammat
    VIP October 2017
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    I'm 10/14 as well. Turning in the final numbers for the venue and the caterer this morning was a huge weight off my mind; now I'm just waiting on a few more RSVPs for the morning after brunch.

    Once those are in I'll be to the point where everything else is pretty much out of my hands until the day before.

    I'm looking forward to that!!

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  • Jessica
    Super October 2017
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    Nope I'm super anxious. Lol. It's only because I hate being the center of attention. All the wedding details are good!

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  • NatHam
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    @Kreestan - lol I am feeling the same way actually! the weather is the one thing I am nervous about. Being in WI it could be 70 or it could be 30 and snowing!

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  • baseballbride17
    Dedicated October 2017
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    I'm still trying to figured out if I'm stressed because of work or the wedding. I feel calm but then whenever someone asks I remember something els I have to do/order/make and have a mini freak out.

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