Hello hello,
I was hoping my groom's family would host the rehearsal dinner so I a) didn't have to think about planning it and b) didn't have to pay for it! But that is not the case and I think it's important to have one. I'm having a destination wedding so having something very casual at home is not an option. I think my best bet is to have it at a restaurant. There is a restaurant in the hotel where we are having the wedding that has a private room and can put together a set priced menu for us.
My question is, who should come? The bridal party and their spouses for sure. Since I'm the one hosting the dinner, I think it's a thank you to them and an opportunity for the bridesmaid and groomsmen to get to know each other before the big day. Parents will be invited too but I think I only want to foot the bill for the bridal party. My family is totally cool with this, but I'm not sure how the in-laws will feel. Thoughts?