Hey y’all -
I am still WAY too far out to be inviting to my rehearsal dinner but I was talking to my FMIL the other day and she told me she was inviting my two FSIL(both live in separate states). Keep in mind, my FMIL is not paying for anything.
I really was only going to have the people in the bridal party and their SOs, the officiant, my uncles to help set up lighting, my mom as she is the decorator and FMIL. (Now I’m thinking I don’t even want to invite FMIL as she won’t help with anything LOL).
I know it would be wrong of me not to extend the invitation to my FMIL. But do I really have to invite the FSILs? She says that it’s not fair since my sister, cousin, and grandma will be there but they are literally my BMs so I feel that’s not really a fair argument. I have nothing against my FSILs. We are not really close as they hated me up until my FH proposed and they realized I wasn’t going anywhere. Plus rehearsal dinner is going to be short. Probably only like an hour and our venue is 45 min away from where we live.
What would you do? Would you invite them? Would you stand your ground? I don’t know how to handle this situation. I didn’t think it would come up as we are the ones paying for everything and she is not.
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