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Anna
Super November 2017

Rehearsal Dinner Invitation- Can it be send with wedding invite?

Anna, on May 2, 2017 at 1:23 AM Posted in Planning 0 12
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None of the weddings I've been in have had a formal rehearsal dinner invitation, it's been word of mouth or via Facebook, so I have no actual reference. So, I'm asking what thoughts are on adding a RD invite to the actual invitations for those who are invited? Or if you do a separate invite, how far apart do you send them?

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Latest activity by AllieCat, on May 2, 2017 at 4:26 PM
  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    I see no reason they can't be mailed together. You would need a separate rsvp card or an alternative method for the RD.

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  • Anna
    Super November 2017
    Anna ·
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    Thanks Muriel!

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  • Ks_catonlap
    Super October 2017
    Ks_catonlap ·
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    A wedding my FH was in once did exactly that. It was totally fine.

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  • Jo
    WeddingWire Administrator May 2015
    Jo ·
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    Sure, mailing them together would be totally fine, just make sure both the invitation and the rehearsal dinner invitation have clear instructions for how to RSVP if they are to be done through different methods.

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  • Laura
    Master July 2017
    Laura ·
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    We are sending ours with our wedding invitations.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    We mailed ours together Smiley smile

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  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    We mailed our wedding invites March 11th, and the rehearsal invites went out last week. However, the people invited to our rehearsal are all coming - we only need the RSVP for their food choice.

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  • MaliceInWunderland
    Dedicated September 2018
    MaliceInWunderland ·
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    They can be, just make sure that you are 100% VERY CAREFUL with the envelopes. I saw on another forum that someone accidentally invited someone to the RD they didn't mean to because of this.

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  • Ashley
    Savvy May 2017
    Ashley ·
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    We mailed ours separately. My FH and I sent the invites and his mom sent the rehearsal dinner invites. They were sent out about three weeks apart.

    However, I have received rehearsal dinner invites with the wedding invite before.

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  • Anna
    Super November 2017
    Anna ·
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    Ok thanks! Smiley smile

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  • Svetlana
    VIP October 2018
    Svetlana ·
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    I am thinking when you do your invites that you separate out the ones attending the RD first and get those completed so there is not an accidental invitation to your RD.

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  • AllieCat
    Super November 2017
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    I've only ever gotten a RD invite in with the wedding invite, so I would definitely say yes!

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