Our DOC has us planned to be out at 10:30...but we're changing (well, I am...FH is probably going to wear his kilt forever) and then having an afterparty at a hookah lounge nearby for anybody who wants to come. I expect to get back to the hotel about 2:00 am.
Officially shortly after we cut the cake around 9 but then we are doing an 'after party' from 10-midnight in the location. We (and our friends) love to dance!
I am having an afternoon wedding. Ceremony starts at 1 pm. The ladies on here helped me decide when to end my reception. Our reception will go until 830 pm. I guess the normal reception length is 4-5 hours!
Our venue requires an 11pm end time, which is fine since we are older. If we're feeling up to it and if anyone else is (after a long day), we'll reconvene in the hotel bar for an after party gathering.