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Elizabeth
Expert May 2018

Really Bummed - Wedding Dress "Visit"

Elizabeth, on July 5, 2017 at 12:35 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 24

My Enzoni Blue wedding dress came in that I said "yes" to back in February Originally I wanted a Maggie Sottero or EOA, but tried this ivory lace mermaid gown on with an illusion back and lace sleeves and fell in love. It was 2 sizes too small, but looked pretty good (though I couldn't move), so we ordered my true size. Well when I went to see it and put it on this weekend I was in tears, and not happy ones.

The dress just wasn't how I remembered. It looked too tight in some spots, bulky in others, it had Madonna boob cones going on and the back wasn't as low cut as the one I tried on so it gave no shape to my butt. And my stomach looked so big and lumpy in it.

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Latest activity by Liz, on July 6, 2017 at 12:41 AM
  • Elizabeth
    Expert May 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    I was so upset. I'm so worried I won't lose enough weight to flatten my tummy in time and even though the sales girl said it fit me almost perfect and the seamstress could address the issues with the boob part, I'm not sure if she can work enough magic for me to love it like I thought I did, and feel confident walking down the aisle. Has anyone had major regrets after seeing their gown upon arrival? Did your seamstress put your concerns to rest? Anyone do a backup dress?

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  • Spaghetti
    VIP November 2018
    Spaghetti ·
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    Do you have any pictures? I'm sure you're your own worst critic! I bet you look beautiful Smiley smile

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  • MMB
    Master January 2017
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    I felt frumpy when I received my dress, pre-alterations.

    But after alterations, I felt like a million bucks. She took in an inch or two, shortened my straps and added cups and I felt SO MUCH BETTER.

    So I wouldn't freak out just quite yet, nor would I buy a back up dress.

    When is your first alterations appointment?

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  • Future381sWife
    VIP September 2017
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    Do you have photos of all the gowns?

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  • LibraryBelle
    Super January 2018
    LibraryBelle ·
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    Pictures, please!

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  • Elizabeth
    Expert May 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    Sample dress I loved



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  • Elizabeth
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    Elizabeth ·
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    Mine.. ;/



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  • FutureMrs
    Super January 2019
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    That dress looks beautiful on you!!! Even without any alterations. I think it looks better in the size you ordered. Have it altered and see how you feel.

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  • Spaghetti
    VIP November 2018
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    You look great! I think you'll love it after alterations.

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  • Anne
    Master April 2017
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    I think it looks great - even better in your size, actually. They will be able to fix it up with alterations, for sure.

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  • SaraJ
    Super November 2018
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    That's gorgeous! The seamstress can take care of the Madonna boobs for you and everything else looks great! Take a deep breath and relax! Smiley smile

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  • S
    Super November 2017
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    Damn, that dress is beautiful and it looks incredible on you! I see what you are saying but these things will disappear after alterations. I have a feeling you will love it again once it's all done Smiley smile

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  • Hannah
    Super June 2018
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    Your dress is beyond gorgeous! Alterations will change it.

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  • Sylphier
    Super June 2017
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    It looks like it just needs altered to fit you better - You should try not to worry, the seamstress will make it look even more amazing than the sample dress did on you. My dress had the boob cones going on too, and all that needed done was some cup padding adding to fill it out because my boobs were not enough for the fabric. Yours looks like with a shorter hem, and some adjustments to the fit around the hips, it will be just perfect. Smiley smile

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  • Mandi
    VIP May 2016
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    The dress looks amazing on your already. I am sure after you have alterations done it will be perfect!

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  • Elizabeth
    Expert May 2018
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    Thank you for your replies. I think in addition to the hem and the mid part and boobs, maybe having some of the bulk taken out from the bottom since I just realized comparing the first time to this time, the toole below seems so much fuller. Maybe tightening the sleeves too and shortening them so they're true 3/4th sleeves instead of that awkward length.

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  • CallmeSam
    Expert May 2018
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    I think u can do w alterations Smiley smile nice dress

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  • Chip
    Master March 2018
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    Besides the Madonna boobs - you look killer in that dress! and thats an easy fix! Shapewear is your friend, not because of any fat, but just to make things smoother. (idc who you are, the right shape wear can always help). Other than some nicks and tucks, it looks great!

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  • Alana
    VIP March 2018
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    As they say on SYTTD jack it up. Put a belt with it and maybe a veil and some jewlery with it. A simple necklace and bracelet. The dress is lovely. Add your final touches to it and turn those sad tears into happy ones. You look stunning

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  • Natalie
    Super September 2017
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    I think you look amazing in your dress!

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