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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Raunchy Bach Parties - Do or Ditch?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2020 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 81

Are you a traditionalist when it comes to bachelor and bachelorette parties as well? Are you sticking the the strict agenda of a wild night out with a bride sash, tiara, raunchy party decor, and maybe even a stripper? Or are you definitely ditching the typical party plans in favor of something more...

Are you a traditionalist when it comes to bachelor and bachelorette parties as well? Are you sticking the the strict agenda of a wild night out with a bride sash, tiara, raunchy party decor, and maybe even a stripper?


Or are you definitely ditching the typical party plans in favor of something more your style - like a spa day, vineyard or brewery tour, fun class, or fancy dinner?


Are you doing or ditching the stereotypical "raunchy" bach party?


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81 Comments

  • Madelyn
    Dedicated June 2020
    Madelyn ·
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    Ditch.
    I think it’s tacky...
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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    Ditch. We're not really doing anything because of travel issues/saving money

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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
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    I guess we (MOH planned most of it) stuck to tradition sort of. We got an AirBnB in Hollywood for the weekend; the first night we just stayed in playing games, drinking, and just catching up because I hadn't seen some of the girls in a while and not everyone knew each other. Saturday we walked the Walk of Fame and did a scavenger hunt and shopped (checked out some lingerie shops) before going out to dinner. We had some "raunchy" decorations and for the dinner they gave me a sash to wear but it never got wild.

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  • Sherraine
    Dedicated October 2022
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    Yes!! ive been to too many 'prim and proper' bach parties. ill keep that for the bridal shower. my bachelorette party is gonna be soooo raunchy Smiley xd

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  • Kaitlin
    Dedicated October 2020
    Kaitlin ·
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    I definitely want to have your stereotypical bach party! i mean how often does someone get to have a penis party and it be appropriate 🤣
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Ditching this. I'd rather have a spa day.

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  • M
    Savvy May 2021
    Malika ·
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    Ditched.....girl night out with drinks is fine by me..
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  • Jill
    Expert April 2020
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    Definitely ditch

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Completely ditching. We're simply doing a relaxing weekend in T.O: spa, dinners, cocktails. Relaxing at our AirBNB

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  • Meetthealvarez’S
    Savvy July 2022
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    I honestly don’t want a bachelorette party. We are having an engagement party and I’m happy with that. If he wants a bachelor party I’m fine with that but I’ll pass. But I will never turn down a tropical getaway lol
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  • Tori
    Devoted October 2021
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    Do! Haha bring on all of the strippers and penis decor Smiley xd

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    No thank you! I am thinking a board and brush class with my friends Smiley smile

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  • Morgan
    Savvy June 2021
    Morgan ·
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    Ditching! I’m going with my mom and some moms of my bridal party and I don’t want any raunchy at all. Don’t get me wrong we’ll go out but I’m not a fan of going to strip clubs and genitalia themed candy.
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    We’re both ditching this one. Neither of us find that behavior respectful to a SO, nor are we into that sorta entertainment. Instead, we are hitting bourbon street separately for a few hours with our respective parties, then all meeting up and continuing the evening together
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    Expert August 2021
    Ingrid ·
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    Definitely ditch not into this type of party
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  • Alecia
    Beginner August 2020
    Alecia ·
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    Ditching, well sort of. We are doing a co-bachlorette party since we are a same sex couple. Thinking of a relaxing weekend with friends/fam probably 1 night out but not raunchy. We will probably go to stripclub before we get married together by ourselves to have a raunchy night out together
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Neither DH nor I are into that kind of party, so we had fairly "tame" ones.

    DH's party took him out to a nice steak dinner and an off-Broadway show.

    My party *wanted* to take me to the Ren Faire, but I couldn't take that time off work, so they took me to Medieval Times instead, with a fun sash and dressing up to match the theme.

    We both had great times.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted October 2020
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    We are DEFINITELY doing a traditional bachelorette party. I don't get to get out much so I can't wait to see what my girls come up with!!
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
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    I ditched this. without question. i just wanted a nice fun weekend with my family. we went on a wine train tour of a vineyard and private room karaoke. then ax throwing and a day in NYC.

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    Definitely ditch. I have no desire to go bar hopping or have a stripper, FH is 100% in the same boat. My MOH is having some girls over to her apartment and all I know is that there will be some alcohol and a few funny references of male parts lol

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